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January 31st, 2011, 08:36 AM
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Super Mommy
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For those of you who miscarried before you found out the sex. Do you have a feeling one way or another as to what your little bean was? I always wanted a little girl, but from the moment I found out I was pregnant I kept having dreams of baby boys.. Looking back at my dreams he was always with my Mum (who has passed) maybe that was a sign that my little bean wasn't going to make it?
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January 31st, 2011, 08:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Hugs! I think we do sometimes have a sign. With my first I just knew he was a boy and they confirmed that for me. My others I didn't really feel one way or another.
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January 31st, 2011, 09:26 AM
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Super Mommy
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With my loss I had a gut feeling that I would have a boy and a girl... not sure why..I just did.. they tested everythign for me and they were both boys...
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January 31st, 2011, 09:35 AM
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It was really hard to decide because the entire time, I thought boy just because I gained weight so fast (with my others, I only lost) but as I started scheduling the gender ultrasound, I started to feel like I was going to be told girl for sure. The heartrate was 156 and so far my girls have had high HR like that.
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January 31st, 2011, 10:32 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I didn't really have a feeling one way or the other. I wish I did.
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January 31st, 2011, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted by ohnicole
I didn't really have a feeling one way or the other. I wish I did.
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Same. I wondered afterward if I didn't have a feeling because it wasn't going to happen. I seem to be repeating you a lot. Maybe we share some DNA somewhere in the past. 
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January 31st, 2011, 11:02 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by Shadeauxe
Same. I wondered afterward if I didn't have a feeling because it wasn't going to happen.
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 I almost wrote this exact thing... maybe you're right about the DNA!
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January 31st, 2011, 11:03 AM
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When I first got pregnant with Drew, I thought he was a girl. After a couple months of that, I had one incredibly vivid dream about the baby being a boy, and us swimming in water together. From then on, all my dreams were about a boy, and had to do with water. Water is one of the dream symbols that's supposed to be a representation of bonding with your baby, you're putting yourself in his/her place by thinking about how it feels to be living in water for so long.
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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January 31st, 2011, 12:27 PM
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i felt that they were a boy and a girl. i also had many dreams about boy/girl twins, but in all the dreams i never got to hold them or take them home.
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January 31st, 2011, 01:07 PM
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I kinda had a feeling my Angel was a boy. Not sure why, but I did. DH thought girl though. They never did any tests.
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January 31st, 2011, 01:20 PM
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At first in pregnancy I kept telling everyone the baby was a boy, but I really wanted a gril. I decided to just call the baby a boy so I could get ready for that reality but at about 8 weeks I had such a calming feeling come over me and just KNEW it was a girl. I never had that confirmed but Shanise said that it was and I'm sticking to that because I just KNEW. I'm afraid I will never have a little girl now. I won't mind having all boys but it will be a bit dissapointing in some ways to never have a girl I can dress up or have that special mother-daughter relationship with. Healthy babies are all that matters to me though!
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January 31st, 2011, 02:20 PM
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my first two losses I didn't really have a feeling one way or the other. My 3rd I was so positive that I was pregnant with a boy but I was wrong, i found out she was a girl the same day i found out she had no chance at life
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January 31st, 2011, 02:30 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by TTCin2010
For those of you who miscarried before you found out the sex. Do you have a feeling one way or another as to what your little bean was? I always wanted a little girl, but from the moment I found out I was pregnant I kept having dreams of baby boys.. Looking back at my dreams he was always with my Mum (who has passed) maybe that was a sign that my little bean wasn't going to make it?
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Karen, I had the same dream. I had couple of dreams that my baby was with my mom. My mom passed away in March 2010. At first I thought it was a good dream but after thinking about it I knew it was a sign my baby wasn't going to make it.
With the first loss I had a feeling the baby was a boy. I don't know why. I just felt like it was a boy. With the other two losses I never really did get a sense. I lost them so fast.
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January 31st, 2011, 02:36 PM
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I always felt that my angel was a little boy.
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