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February 1st, 2011, 06:05 PM
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So I got my chart copies from the RE... she didn't tell me that my right tube had stenosis (narrowing) :/ on top of an completely blocked left tube.

I have some research to do with my labs because some are very very close to being too low or too high for certain things, also the endo biopsy says there's a benine endo polyp tannish/pinkish tissue. Some other things that she never really told me.

I'm sorta upset, to her it might not be squat but you add all these factors in and then what???!!!! Ya know?
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February 1st, 2011, 06:10 PM
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Ok, can I be difficult right now and say you really need to find a new doctor? I know I have said it a million times and it is out of love I promise. However this RE makes me mad. None of what that office does for you/tells you makes any kind of sense to me. They seem to give you half truths with no suggestion of treatment of any kind.

I am mucho frustrated for you right now.
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February 1st, 2011, 06:11 PM
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Awww, Celena, I'm sorry It seems like so many doctors are lazy. I hope you can get into a new doctor soon- maybe there is something treatable going on that your old doctor missed. Huge hugs!
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February 1st, 2011, 06:12 PM
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I am in total agreement with Missy. It seems like they just jerk you around with no real answers. I hope that you can find someone who will be your advocate and is completely truthful about what is going on with your body!!
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February 1st, 2011, 06:17 PM
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Frustrating. I hope your new doctor is more forthcoming.
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February 1st, 2011, 06:20 PM
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I was going to comment along the same lines as Missy. What are they doing for you to help you get pregnant, especially knowing what you are up against!
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February 1st, 2011, 06:20 PM
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I agree with Missy. I would like to take your doctor and shove my foot up his....BUTT! I think they should do a HSG/Lap. I had narrowing of my tube when they did the lap and she put a stint in it (I think that is what she said, have to go back into my records). I very, very much dislike you doctors and I feel like they are hindering instead of helping you. I love you lady!
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February 1st, 2011, 06:26 PM
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I also agree with Missy...I remember so many woman on this board telling me to find a new doctor, and I put it off and put it off, and then I got a new doctor and wondered why I didn't do it sooner lol...Any way, i'm really sorry and I hope you can get some answers, and I hope you can find a new doctor that will help you get pregnant and STAY pregnant (((hugs)))
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February 1st, 2011, 06:29 PM
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I thought Celena was going to a new doc, that's why she got her chart? If that's not true, Celena, then I agree with the other ladies that you need a new RE and OB.
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February 1st, 2011, 06:55 PM
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Im sorry I hope you can find a new dr soon. HUGS
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February 1st, 2011, 07:15 PM
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im sorry hun, i hope you get some better answers soon.
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Ugh how freakin frustrating!!!! I agree with others...sounds like you need to find a different doctor I hate that process of trying to find a new doctor...it is overwhelming.
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February 1st, 2011, 08:18 PM
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I felt this way when I got my records to switch docs. There was like two abnormal test results that he hadn't felt like sharing with me because they were "barely abnormal"! They were still abnormal! Doesn't that at least warrant additional testing?

I am sorry you are finding this out now! Have you considered IVF or something along those lines?
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February 1st, 2011, 09:38 PM
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(((Hugs)))

I too think that it is time for a new doctor.
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February 2nd, 2011, 05:48 AM
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Celena, I agree with everyone else. You need to fine another doctor that is going to be honest with you and help you get your rainbow baby.
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February 2nd, 2011, 06:51 AM
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i am so sorry you are dealing with incompetence on top of everything else. i pray that you get some real answers soon~
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February 2nd, 2011, 08:30 AM
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I agree with the other ladies you need a new dr. I hope you get better answers soon. I am so sorry you are going through all of this.

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February 2nd, 2011, 08:54 AM
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I don't have anything to say on top of what everyone else has said, so i'm just going to give you
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February 2nd, 2011, 09:08 AM
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how frustrating! I would definitely be upset. I don't know a lot about any of your past experiences with your doctors, but perhaps you should shop around for a new doc.

sending you hugs!
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February 2nd, 2011, 09:16 AM
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That is so frustrating. I agree with the other ladies time for a switch.
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