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February 7th, 2011, 12:43 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Cali
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My name is Christine and I am a sahm to 2 amazing little girls. 4.5 and 2. DH and I are TTC #3 to complete our family, but it's is becoming a bit challenging. Last month I got my BFP on my 2 cycle of trying. At 5.5 weeks I m/c. My first m/c ever. I was crushed because I have never experienced that before. DH and I tried the next cycle and caught the egg, but my body had other plans, I started bleeding last night  m/c #2. I am starting to wonder if I will be able to hold on to a pregnancy now. Both of our daughters were born via c-sec. I am hoping to get an appoinment this week with my OBGYN to get some answers. I hope its ok that I join you all. I could really use the support
**UPDATE**
So I went to the Dr. and they did an internal u/s (gross I might add as I am m/c) They saw an empty sac.  They of course asked if I had experienced a m/c before and I told them about last month. I have O- blood type so they had to give me a rhogam shot in case the baby was +. So now my upper butt cheek hurts LOL I had to go get a blood test. They will call me tomorrow.
Last edited by GracieNAmelia'sMommy; February 7th, 2011 at 05:35 PM.
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February 7th, 2011, 02:38 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Location: Clarence, Pa
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 I am sorry for your loss. You will fine a lot of surport from this room. All of us have gone through what you are going through. Dh and I have been trying for our first for almost 3 years. We have had 3 losses. I hope your doctor can give you some answers.
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February 7th, 2011, 05:20 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
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Christine, I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband and I are also trying to conceive #3, and I also just had back to back miscarriages in October and January. I was also shocked by my first miscarriage in October, because I innocently/ignorantly never thought it would happen to me. The ladies on TTCAL are supportive and funny, and that has helped me tremendously.
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February 7th, 2011, 06:20 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry for your loss  I hope that the ladies here can be of some support to you.
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February 7th, 2011, 06:59 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Welcome! I am very sorry for your losses. I would get an appointment with your doctor and have your levels checked. Praying that you get your sticky BFP soon. The ladies here are amazing & such a supportive group.
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February 7th, 2011, 07:03 AM
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It's me
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Location: Massachusetts
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Some of us are odder than others. Beware!
I might be one of the odd ones.
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February 7th, 2011, 07:12 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry for your losses. TTCAL is an awesome board, glad you found us. I hope your stay with us is short!
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Thank you .:Shortcake:.!! for my awesome siggy!
My Forever Babies- 07/20087.5 weeks, 10/2008 4.5 weeks 12/2008 4 weeks 06/2009 our twin 7.5 weeks 08/2010 4 weeks 10/2010 Mr. Spud 9.5 weeks 04/2011 twins 6 weeks
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February 7th, 2011, 07:51 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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 We understand how painful all of this is, feel free to jump right in... There is nothing you can say that we have not all been through. ((Hugs)) I am sorry for your losses
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February 7th, 2011, 08:13 AM
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Loves Kate!
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So sorry for your losses, but welcome!
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Born 11/19/11
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February 7th, 2011, 10:21 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Cali
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Thank you so much ladies. I called my OBGYN and they want me to walk in today to see them. So I will be going in a bit and will update when I get home.
Jess (Sillykitty) I too have 2 girls and am married to my HS sweetheart
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February 7th, 2011, 02:28 PM
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Wife/Mommy/Photographer
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Location: Oneida, TN
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Christine...I hate that you HAD to join us but I am glad you are here. This board is AWESOME.
Please KUP on your results at the dr!
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February 7th, 2011, 03:08 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: New Jersey
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 Christine. I'm so sorry for your losses and that you have to join us here, but this is an amazing bunch of women! I hope you're able to find some comfort here!
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February 7th, 2011, 03:42 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Dec 2010
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welcome im so sorry for your losses. Im new here as well
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February 7th, 2011, 05:11 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Welcome. I am so sorry for your losses. I hope your dr can see you and get you some answers. This is a great group of ladies who have all been there done that so we understand.
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February 8th, 2011, 05:41 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
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Just read your update, and I'm sorry it was confirmed. Just another thing we have in common- I'm also Rh negative and have to get RhoGam with each mc. Just adds insult to injury.
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February 8th, 2011, 05:57 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Pennsylvania
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I'm also negative blood type. My poor bum has been stuck with lots of needles. Hugs!
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February 8th, 2011, 06:15 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry!
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Thank you .:Shortcake:.!! for my awesome siggy!
My Forever Babies- 07/20087.5 weeks, 10/2008 4.5 weeks 12/2008 4 weeks 06/2009 our twin 7.5 weeks 08/2010 4 weeks 10/2010 Mr. Spud 9.5 weeks 04/2011 twins 6 weeks
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February 8th, 2011, 07:15 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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I am very sorry
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February 8th, 2011, 07:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: South Carolina
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I am sorry for your loss! There is a great group of ladies here! I hope you get your bfp soon!
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February 8th, 2011, 01:07 PM
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Wife/Mommy/Photographer
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I am glad you got to the dr  so sorry about your losses.
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