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  #1  
February 10th, 2011, 12:17 PM
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Hello all!! I use to post here a long time ago when I got pregnant with my daughter Ava.
I thought I was done having children and actually had my tubes tied after I had my daughter. I had a son Jakob with special needs as well. We had a miscarriage before getting pregnant with Ava as well.
I am 30 years old and I am a full time student and a full time mom. I have a wonderful husband of 7 years.

We lost my son Jakob though almost 2 years ago. Ever since that happened I have wanted a reversal so we could try again. I finally got my dream come true. Almost 2 months ago I had a reversal done. I only have 6 inches of tube on the left side and only 4 inches on the right side. The Ob says that is enough to have a good chance at getting pregnant. We are officially trying but we aren't going to chart or anything at this point. Just try to have fun with it at first. After a while if we don't get pregnant we will start the charting and such.

I hope to post here as much as I can and start to get to know all of you in your TTC journey.

I wish you all lots and lots of baby dust!
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February 10th, 2011, 12:29 PM
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I'm so sorry for you losses.
Welcome back to the board. I hope you get that BFP quickly!
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February 10th, 2011, 12:42 PM
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Thank you!!

I forgot to say I am CD 2.
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February 10th, 2011, 12:50 PM
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I am so sorry for you loss. Welcome to the board. You will catch baby fever quite quickly here. The ladies here are amazing and such a supportive bunch. I hope you get your BFP quickly.
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February 10th, 2011, 02:24 PM
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Welcome to TTCAL. I am very sorry for your losses, your story broke my heart. ((Hugs)) I hope you get pregnant soon.
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February 10th, 2011, 03:20 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss! Good luck!
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February 10th, 2011, 04:10 PM
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JESS!!! I was just thinking about you the other day! I'm so glad to see you again. I hope that you get a sticky bfp quickly.

I'm am so sad to hear about Jakob.
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February 10th, 2011, 04:40 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses I hope you get a sticky BFP right away!
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February 10th, 2011, 05:34 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Jakob. Welcome back to the board and I hope you don't have to stay long!
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February 10th, 2011, 08:20 PM
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Welcome !! Hope you don't have to stay long :-) Good luck !!
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February 11th, 2011, 03:16 AM
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Welcome! I am sorry about your loss. I hope your stay here is short and you get your BFP quickly.
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February 11th, 2011, 04:59 AM
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Jess!!!! It's so good to see you. Don't know if you remember me, used to come on here as Alex and Ethanael's mommy. I was so sorry to hear about Jakob, I remember when you posted in another forum about him.

I pray that everything goes smoothly for you and you catch the eggie very quickly.

I bet Ava is getting so big!
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February 11th, 2011, 08:35 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses

Welcome back to the board, I'm Nickie and I'm new here too. I am also a full time student and mom

Hopefully your TTC journey will be a short one and you'll have that beautiful BFP very soon!
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February 11th, 2011, 11:07 AM
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I am so, so, so sorry about Jakob I lost my little NICU baby Andrew at five days old, and can only imagine what it must be like to lose an older child SO sorry, and for your miscarriage, too.

Congratulations on the reversal! It's so great that you're able to continue with your dream together I'm glad you decided to start hanging out with us!
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)


Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.




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February 11th, 2011, 12:27 PM
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Im sorry to hear about your losses, but I hope you get your bfp soon. I also had a tubal reversal, mine was last year in May.
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February 15th, 2011, 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Brittanie View Post
JESS!!! I was just thinking about you the other day! I'm so glad to see you again. I hope that you get a sticky bfp quickly.

I'm am so sad to hear about Jakob.
Hey girl!! I saw that you were posting on here and was like WOW another TTC buddy from the past!! Its great seeing your post!!

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Im sorry to hear about your losses, but I hope you get your bfp soon. I also had a tubal reversal, mine was last year in May.
That is is nice to hear that there is another lady here that had a TR. Can I still your blinkie? I see you have had 2 m/c. Is that because of the TR? Do u know much tube u have left?

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I am so, so, so sorry about Jakob I lost my little NICU baby Andrew at five days old, and can only imagine what it must be like to lose an older child SO sorry, and for your miscarriage, too.

Congratulations on the reversal! It's so great that you're able to continue with your dream together I'm glad you decided to start hanging out with us!
I am so sorry for you lost as well.

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Jess!!!! It's so good to see you. Don't know if you remember me, used to come on here as Alex and Ethanael's mommy. I was so sorry to hear about Jakob, I remember when you posted in another forum about him.

I pray that everything goes smoothly for you and you catch the eggie very quickly.

I bet Ava is getting so big!
Great to see you post again as well!! I see your pg!! Congrats!

Thank all of you for a warm welcome!
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Jakob (May 12th 2004- Feb. 24th 2009 Had Joubert Syndrome RIP)
Baby bean (lost at 8 weeks June 2006) Baby bean 2 (lost at 5 weeks August 2011)
Ava Sept 14th, 2007* Tubal reversal December 17th 2010



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