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February 11th, 2011, 07:15 AM
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Answered Prayers
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I lurk here for the most part but had been thinking about being more active on this board, I mainly lurk because sometimes I want to talk about my losses and sometimes I dont, I see from lurking that others kinda feel that way too and i really never know what to say. So about me, I was in the March ddc and when I left it wasnt too hard, I felt it coming and got ready for it ...I guess. But now that March is right around the corner all of a sudden its become harder for me, my edd was
march 12th. I then got got pg again in October but I never joined a ddc because I already knew that pg was going anywhere either, the pg test never got past a faint line and my beta was 24 at 13 dpo and then dropped to 11 at 15 dpo. So we started ttc again last cycle but got a bfn, and so this cycle was use Preseed, opks, honey and cinnamon, baby aspirin, lemon water, vitamins, extra folic acid and progesterone pills. Oddly enough my boobs have been hurting since Ovulation (this is odd for me) and they are only getting more painful and full every day (very odd for me) I kinda feel like I did in June with that pg, my boobs got sore at 5 dpo and then by 7 dpo a bra was optional, honestly I think the pg in june was good, I think it was a progesterone issue. My pg in October I had nothing, no signs. So I am hopeful for a bfp and a sticky baby this time, I have a good feeling about this one so I am praying it works out. Ill be testing Monday or Tuesday, and the other night I had a bfp dream and last night I had a baby dream...so we shall see.
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February 11th, 2011, 07:58 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 I am very sorry for your losses. How exciting that your having symptoms! Now I'm going to have to stalk you  I hope this is it for you hun. And please jump right in. The ladies here are amazing!
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February 11th, 2011, 08:37 AM
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Your symptoms sound awesome! Good Luck and Welcome! I'll be stalking you!
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February 11th, 2011, 08:58 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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HI honey, I'm so sorry that you have to be here,. I hope it's a short stay. I hope that this is your bfp.
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February 11th, 2011, 09:29 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry for your losses!
Your symptoms sound great! Hope this is it for you!!
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February 11th, 2011, 10:49 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Welcome! I hope you are pregnant! 
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February 11th, 2011, 10:49 AM
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POAS Queen
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So sorry for your losses I'm glad you posted an intro! I know what you mean about sometimes wanting to talk, and sometimes not. That's something we understand really well here, that not everyone can read all of everyone's posts all the time. It's okay if you find yourself unable to comment on the BFP posts at first, or any of the "pregnancy mentioned" posts. TTCAL is a tricky place to be, and we all understand that 
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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February 11th, 2011, 02:32 PM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Welcome! I am sorry for you loss. I was in March DDC also. My due date was March 9th so I know what you are going through with March being right around the corner. I hope your stay here is short.
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February 11th, 2011, 03:17 PM
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Answered Prayers
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Thank you all for the warm welcome, Im hopng to make it to "testing tuesday" but these sore boobs are really making my head spin, Im so excited to test, yet so scared. I have used a couple IC's yesterday and today, not like I would expect to see anything but mainly trying to warm up for Tuesday so I can get rid of the testing jitters. I get so nervous about poas anymore, I can hear my heart beating in my ears as im poas and watching the dye move through the screen, or worse watching the hour glass blink a thousand times. I guess its all of the worries of "what ifs", what if its positive? what if its negative? I dont know if I could deal with another loss, so getting a bfp just start all those worries, I actually dont get too upset about bfns anymore because atleast I dont have the rest of the worry. Anyways, im sure Ill be a nervous wreck come tuesday. 
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February 11th, 2011, 03:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hi Grace,
I recognize your picture from around the boards. I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope that this is the month for your big, fat, very sticky, healthy positive!
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February 11th, 2011, 03:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sorry to hear about your loss and I hope this is it for you! :-)
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February 11th, 2011, 06:39 PM
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I think I remember you from the loss board awhile back. I am so sorry for your losses
I know what you mean as well about not knowing what to say sometimes. I go through phases where I post a lot and then other times not so much. TTCAL IS a tricky place to be.
Even though I got my BFP, sometimes I still don't know what to say bc I still worry about losing this one. And I HATE to even type that because I am trying to be as positive as possible.
*hugs*
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February 12th, 2011, 06:14 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: New Jersey
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I'm so sorry about your losses. The ladies here are awesome! I hope you're able to find some comfort and you get your bfp quickly! Your symptoms sound great!
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