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February 13th, 2011, 06:28 PM
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I have an incrediable amount of stressors since the start of spotting with our recent loss... everything keeps pouring here which is why I've been less active. I'm mentally, physically and emotionally drained. My job is a big factor as well as all the car troubles, tv dying, pc dying, my bday sucked with the issues on it, apt flooding, etc etc etc. I won't bore you to death with my crap.
So I'm sorry ladies. It's always something here, but it can't rain all the time right?
Something GOOD is bound to happen. Or at least the upswing.
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February 13th, 2011, 06:34 PM
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Hang in there girl....when it rains it pours...but somehow there is a rainbow at the end. Just know that no matter how hard it gets we are always here, we always understand and we want to love you through it. No questions asked, no judgements from us, no one will let you down. We love and respect you Celena....take what time you need and let us help any way we can....
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Our rainbow baby Brynlee Sue was born August 17th after four heartbreaking loses! Life is an amazing journey. Hang on, keep your faith and try to always move forward!
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February 13th, 2011, 06:38 PM
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Julie, could you turn your siggy on... for me? Please? That bring joy to my heart and makes my frown turn upside down 
Thank you for your kind wisdom Julie, you always warm my heart! You're an old soul an angel on earth to touch our lives... thank you thank you thank you!!!
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February 13th, 2011, 06:44 PM
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Ok...siggy is on just for you! I don't think I am that wise...I am just a soul that understands. I love you ladies, your my only support right now since my few family members that know I am pregnant have lectured me and chosen to step back from me because they think I am selfish and stupid in my decisions. So, here is where I hang my hat because no matter what you guys get it. You know those desires and that pull on your heart and no matter how hard life gets we understand that adding a baby to our lives doesn't mean we add hardship, stress and difficulty...it means we add love, joy and hope for our future.
I just want you to know that you mean a lot to me and what kind of friend would I be if I sat back and watched you struggle and stood around and said "sucks to be you!"....the worst kind of friend.....we love you Celena....we are all here for you!
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The adventures of raising a big family....Life, love and family in the Sock Bin! www.thesockbin.blogspot.com
Our rainbow baby Brynlee Sue was born August 17th after four heartbreaking loses! Life is an amazing journey. Hang on, keep your faith and try to always move forward!
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February 14th, 2011, 03:03 AM
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Celena, I am sorry everything is happening right now. I hope everything starts to turn around for you. Hang in there. Please know that everyone cares about you and we are here if you need to vent.
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February 14th, 2011, 03:24 AM
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Celena please know that we all are here for you. Life is really crappy at times but we still love you! Take care of things outside of here and we will be here (or PAL  ) when you return. I love you and keep your head up!
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February 14th, 2011, 05:47 AM
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Celena, I am so sorry that life is throwing so much at you right now  I do know what it is like to feel like crap is coming at you from all sides, and it is so overwhelming. I hope that some good things come your way soon! I love ya, girlie!
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February 14th, 2011, 06:51 AM
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It's me
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Sending you some sunshine (this is a picture I took last summer on our departmental sailing trip)
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February 14th, 2011, 10:02 AM
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I am sorry so many things have gone wrong. I pray that things get better for you soon. You deserve it after everything you have been through. *huge hugs*
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February 14th, 2011, 10:18 AM
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February 14th, 2011, 11:02 AM
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Life is bound to go on the upswing for all of us!! It can't stay like this for too long. I hope yours does the upswing pronto!!
And big hugs!!!
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February 14th, 2011, 01:57 PM
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Thank you ladies so much  It's a tad overwhelming, granted it's a ton of smaller things but it feels big when it keeps piling up. bleh. Think I need to OD on chocolate.
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February 14th, 2011, 03:40 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Celena
Think I need to OD on chocolate.
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Can I join you? I am sorry everything is so bad... ((Hugs))
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February 14th, 2011, 05:23 PM
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:yes: YES! You can, I have some too!
Ya know it could always be worse, but I'm eating my words with that one... so think I need to say it can only get BETTER. Because the other seems to be proving me wrong :\ it can get worse, lol
Courtney, thanks for sharing that gourgous picture! I absolutely find solace in nature and mother earth's beauty, it's one of my happy places and the sun most especially.
Katie that's cute, lol, hilarious actually.
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February 14th, 2011, 08:28 PM
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Celena you are one of the most giving, caring people on this board. I remember when you first became host I was so happy for you because you were so great at being there for people. Even with all you have been through you have been so great! You need time too and you deserve that time. We will always be here just like you have been for us. I am so sorry for all you are going through.
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February 14th, 2011, 09:03 PM
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I ditto what the other ladies said. You're an amazing woman and deserve to take some time for yourself. We'll still be here.
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February 15th, 2011, 03:41 PM
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I'm so sorry you're going through so much!! I hope everything stops dumping on you soon!! Lord knows you deserve better!
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