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February 26th, 2011, 04:33 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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It was a chemical pregnancy and I started bleeding today.  I felt it coming with the loss of the positive pregnancy tests. I didn't think something that was with me for so little time could hurt so bad once it was taken away. It seems like a really cruel joke.
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February 26th, 2011, 05:02 PM
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Im so sorry. The moment we see that second line, no matter how faint or dark, our whole life changes in an instant.....so when its taken away, no matter how quick, the pain cannot be measured. Just know that Im thinking about you and pray you find peace and get that beautiful bfp thats gonna stick SOON.
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February 26th, 2011, 05:21 PM
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Like momof5 said, as soon as that second line pops up, our hopes and dreams begin. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you in this tough time. ((hugs))
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February 26th, 2011, 05:52 PM
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February 26th, 2011, 06:10 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I agree with Lori that it hurts no matter how early it is. I hope you get your sticky BFP soon.
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February 26th, 2011, 06:25 PM
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I am so so so sorry.
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February 26th, 2011, 07:18 PM
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Lovin life and family
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I am so sorry. It does seem so very cruel.
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February 26th, 2011, 08:44 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry, I have had 3 chemicals. It still hurts no matter how short.
Last edited by mom2njia; February 26th, 2011 at 08:48 PM.
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February 26th, 2011, 09:17 PM
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I am so sorry, I have had 2 chemicals and understand. ((Hugs Honey)). Wish I could take away your pain.
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February 26th, 2011, 10:04 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by momof5lopez
Im so sorry. The moment we see that second line, no matter how faint or dark, our whole life changes in an instant.....so when its taken away, no matter how quick, the pain cannot be measured. Just know that Im thinking about you and pray you find peace and get that beautiful bfp thats gonna stick SOON.
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This is so true
I am so sorry for your loss. I hate any of us have to go through it.
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February 26th, 2011, 10:39 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by momof5lopez
Im so sorry. The moment we see that second line, no matter how faint or dark, our whole life changes in an instant.....so when its taken away, no matter how quick, the pain cannot be measured. Just know that Im thinking about you and pray you find peace and get that beautiful bfp thats gonna stick SOON.
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so true! I am so sorry for your loss, I really hope you get that 9mo line really soon! (((hugs)))
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February 27th, 2011, 05:26 AM
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Hugs! I hope your next BFP is a sticky bean!
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February 27th, 2011, 05:48 AM
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 I am so sorry for your loss. No matter how far along you are you loved that baby and had dreams for that little one. I hope you get your sticky BFP soon. If you need to talk I'm here.
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February 27th, 2011, 06:12 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by momof5lopez
Im so sorry. The moment we see that second line, no matter how faint or dark, our whole life changes in an instant.....so when its taken away, no matter how quick, the pain cannot be measured. Just know that Im thinking about you and pray you find peace and get that beautiful bfp thats gonna stick SOON.
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I couldn't agree more! I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm praying for peace, healing, and a sticky bean for you soon!
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February 27th, 2011, 04:26 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss
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February 28th, 2011, 09:44 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and strength your way to get through this.
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February 28th, 2011, 09:49 AM
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Other girls have seconded (thirded, fourthed, etc.) the comment about that second line changing our lives, and it really is true. I'm so sorry this is how it's turning out
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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February 28th, 2011, 10:48 AM
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I am so sorry Hugs to you!
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February 28th, 2011, 12:34 PM
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I'm so sorry!!
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