[sadie97007]

Debbie Downer warning......................................you have been warned.

The month of March marks the one year anniversary of us actively TTC'ing. Instead of a baby I have had one D&C and one chemical pregnancy, and a slew of women in my life who are all pregnant and on the verge of giving birth.

Today is also my dad's birthday. He has been gone for an incredible 6 1/2 years. That is such a long time. He never met my children. My daughter was only 4 months old when he passed away. He was supposed to meet her at Christmas, but he died in November. He was only 50 years old. It still shocks me to think that I haven't talked to him in 6 1/2 years. He was one of my most favorite people in the world. I miss him.

Yes...today is a depressing day.

[.:Shortcake:.]

Hugs! I just wanted to let you know that your going to have your good days and your bad days. I still to this day have them. We understand what your going through and we are here for you.

[Shadeauxe]

Sorry.

I will find a bunch of ridiculously cute pictures to make you smile...

[JessP]

I am so sorry. Just like Katie said you will have good days and bad days.

[TnPhotoMama81]

[Cait&AngelAbove]

I am so sorry!

[pepper73]

I am so sorry! What a huge pile of emotions to deal with all at once! Big hugs to you!

[wishfulgal]

Ugh... I'm sorry you have to deal with so much ickiness at once

[missy123]

((Hugs)) I am sorry you are going through so much heartache all at once - or even at all.

Pregnancy loss hurts so much and the sadness only compounds when we do not get pregnant right away. We sit back and watch our friends and family go on to get pregnant without any worries and this can lead to jealousy as well as depression. Can you do something nice for yourself like get a massage or your nails done? This won't replace the hurt but will give you a few minutes of happiness. Don't be afraid to cry - crying helps me at least.

((Hugs))