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March 7th, 2011, 09:46 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Preggos:
How far along are you?
Team blue, pink, or green?
How has your pregnancy been so far?
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey?
Belly Pictures Please!
Kiddos!
How long did you TTC?
Did you need MA?
How old is your LO?
What is your favorite thing to do with your LO?
Pictures Please!
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March 7th, 2011, 10:17 AM
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Lovin life and family
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Washington
Posts: 21,980
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How far along are you? 11 weeks today 
Team blue, pink, or green? Not sure yet.
How has your pregnancy been so far? Actually this is the best pregnancy I have had of all my pregnancies healthy babies included .
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey? We weren't trying I was training for a triathlon. Perhaps that is why things are going so well.
Belly Pictures Please! I have a link in my siggie but I will take one tonight and post it here .
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March 7th, 2011, 10:19 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 3,787
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HI!!!
How far along are you? I am 12 weeks today!
Team blue, pink, or green? Don't know yet. Hoping to find out soon!!
How has your pregnancy been so far? Thankfully, it's been uneventful. Still really scary though. I worry most if not all the time. I am trying to enjoy it. I'm hoping in a week or two when I hit the second trimester milestone, I can. I still have m/s, but not as bad, and actually, it helps me stay calmer. LOL
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey? I had a missed m/c last March at 10 weeks. Getting past that 10 week mark was big for me. But as I found out about the loss the first week of March, and that's where we are, I'm back to freaking out a bit. I have my NT scan on Thursday. I'm just excited to get a chance to see the baby!!
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March 7th, 2011, 11:02 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Virginia
Posts: 3,871
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How far along are you? 18w3d
Team blue, pink, or green? Dont know yet but will find out on St. Pattys Day!! As long as lil booger is showing the goods!
How has your pregnancy been so far? Hasent been too bad. A lil stressful from finding out my risk for a baby with Downs is higher but Im trying to think positive.
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey? I think alot for me was just getting past the emotional side of having a loss. Once I started to get past some of that we was able to conceive again.
Belly Pictures Please! Ughhh.. I dont like these but since I love you girls... This was a few weeks ago when I realized I did have a lil bump even though Im a fluffier gal.
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March 7th, 2011, 12:47 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2010
Posts: 3,833
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How far along are you? 28 weeks! I'm in the 3rd tri!!
Team blue, pink, or green? Team PINK
How has your pregnancy been so far? My 1st tri was awful, I lived in constant fear and felt terribly sick all the time. (I had several bouts of unexplained heavy red bleeding, with constant brown spotting in between - turned out to be nothing that affected the placenta or fetus though, amazingly.) I lost ~10 lbs. My 2nd tri was very good, I got my energy and appetite back and had no more complications. I gained a lot of weight and now I'm at a great weight. Now entering my 3rd tri, I am still doing well emotionally and health-wise, but having more fatigue and heartburn and discomfort than a few weeks ago. My belly is getting so big that I'm not as agile or physically capable so I can't do as much, but it's also wonderful to be so far along!!!
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey? After I had the really traumatic ectopic rupture and lost my right tube, I was extremely worried that I would not be able to get pregnant, or I would have another ectopic next time and lose my remaining tube. My cycles were wonky after the ectopic. I had already been TTC for over a year (with 1 uncomplicated early loss) when I had the ectopic. Amazingly I got very lucky and got a sticky, womby BFP on the first cycle where we were really trying!!! I was doing OPKs and taking Floradix (iron + B-vit herbs), 1 mg folic acid, fish oil, and chlorella tablets, exercising and getting sunshine. TTCAL helped me learn about OPKs and my cycle, and gave me the emotional support I needed to get back into BDing and being hopeful. I this board
Belly Pictures Please! Sorry, those who know me know I don't do identifying pics. But I measured today and I am 38" around! And my belly button is mostly an outie now, I used to have an innie
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March 7th, 2011, 12:50 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Washington
Posts: 21,980
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Becca you look great!
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March 7th, 2011, 01:07 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: illinois
Posts: 6,536
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How far along are you? 6w4d
Team blue, pink, or green? Will not be finding out this time!
How has your pregnancy been so far? Emotionally draining, physically draining, lots of m/s. Spotting and several trips to the er. Got to see the h/b on Saturday and Today, growing good and the h/b is 131 now, from 123 on Saturday. Everythings looking good, just got to deal with this small bleed until it passes.
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey? I was not ttc, but NTNP. We just had Mia 5mo before this blessing. I was finally getting over the anxiety of her pregnancy and did not think it would happen so quickly if we were to get pg again, especially at my age. But, here we are, and I feel so very blessed.
Belly Pictures Please! To come.....I still have that pregnancy line down my lower belly from Mia's pregnancy. I will probably do a belly shot when Im 8wks plus.
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March 7th, 2011, 02:30 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 11,542
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How far along are you? 8 weeks 2 days
Team blue, pink, or green? team green for now...I really am hoping for team pink, but i'll be happy with anything
How has your pregnancy been so far? It's been pretty good...I've been pretty sick and tired, but it makes me feel good to be sick...I started getting worried yesterday and I can't shake the feeling...I hope after my dr's appointment tomorrow i'll feel better about things.
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey?I've had 2 more losses (3 total) since I started ttcal...2 of my losses were in the 2nd trimester and were pretty hard to deal with...After my last miscarriage my cycles went crazy and My doctor put me on progesterone suppositories....ttcal is so hard, and I honestly hope I never have to take another hpt or opk again. lol
Belly Pictures Please! none yet, i've been too tired and lazy lol
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March 7th, 2011, 04:25 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Montreal
Posts: 3,168
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Preggos:
How far along are you? 10w6d by my first u/s, but a more recent one (at work so off record) says about 6 days ahead of that
Team blue, pink, or green? should know by the end of the month
How has your pregnancy been so far? not bad, some m/s, but otherwise well
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey? just the emotional aspect.
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March 7th, 2011, 04:25 PM
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Weiner Dogs Rock!
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Maryland
Posts: 7,682
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My first "graduate" update  I think I can safely feel like I belong here now!
Preggos:
How far along are you? I will be 10 weeks tomorrow!!
Team blue, pink, or green? So far, green. All "signs" point to blue. I still think pink
How has your pregnancy been so far? Stressful, but fairly easy in all honesty
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey? I had four losses in a row from July-November (after a healthy pregnancy the year before) and we got RE testing that showed an antiphospholipid antibody issue. The day I was officially diagnosed was the day we concieved this baby
Belly Pictures Please! This was one week ago (9 weeks)
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March 7th, 2011, 04:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Ladies I love seeing this! Keep them coming  I can't believe how far along some of you are. Time seems to be passing so quickly.
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March 7th, 2011, 04:33 PM
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Hi ladies!!! Hers a little update from me and belly bean!
How far along are you? 15 weeks 1 day
Team blue, pink, or green? We haven't found out yet, but we will and when we do, Ill be sure to update here!
How has your pregnancy been so far? Very uncomfortable. Ive had a lot of cramping, starting from 7 dpo. And it seems that Im not going to be able to be very active this pregnancy, as everytime I try to do anything I pull a muscle, or a tendon or something near my uterus and Im in pain for days! It happened again just last week and all I did was sit up in bed!!
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey? Mostly my age I think so I was on fertility meds, and I also agree with Becca, about having healed a little more since the m/c, maybe having an effect on my ability to concieve.
Belly Pictures Please!
15 weeks
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March 7th, 2011, 04:38 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Posts: 2,568
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How far along are you? 8w3d
Team blue, pink, or green? Team green (will stay that way)
How has your pregnancy been so far? I've been a bit worried because my morning sickness hasn't been nearly as bad as it was with my second daughter, so a few days ago I made an appointment to go see my OB this coming Wednesday. Of course, as soon as I made the appointment, my MS hit. I haven't thrown up yet, but I'm nauseated throughout the day and it gets worse at night. I don't mind, though, because it is reassuring. It's weird to think that I want to be tortured, lol.
What were you dealing with in your TTC journey? We had two losses in less than 3 months and decided to NTNP for awhile. We were actually trying to avoid around O time for the first cycle. Fate had other plans, and apparently I O'd earlier than I predicted and here I am.
Belly Pictures Please! I haven't taken any belly pics yet, since it hasn't grown yet.
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March 7th, 2011, 04:46 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Tobi your belly is so freaking cute! And I cannot wait to find out what your having. For some reason I have a feeling pink for you
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March 7th, 2011, 04:54 PM
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It's me
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Massachusetts
Posts: 5,064
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I enjoyed reading everyone's updates.
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March 7th, 2011, 05:13 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2008
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Well I do not know if I belong since we were not really ttc.. But I belonged to your group when awhile ago . Before I was pregnant with Kaetlin .
Anyways
I am 16 weeks 2 days
I am on blue and the pink team.. We are having twins.. SURPRISE !!! Twins do not run in the family so we were shocked
This pregnancy has been scary.... I had a little bit of spotting during my 9th week. Just a couple days (nothing much ). Then around 11 weeks I started bleeding . Just enough for a pad. Called the doc and they got me in for a ultrasound.. When I got there and got out of the car I stood up and I soaked my underwear and pants. It was so embarssing walking up to the second floor that way. At that point I knew it was over.. How could it not be.. Well I went into the ultrasound when dh got there. To our surprise there were still two strong heartbeats.. However we did find out we had a large blood clot. They wanted us to come back in two days.. Later that night the bleeding stopped. Since then I have had two ultrasounds and the clot looks like it might be getting a tiny bit smaller and I really not bleeding ,other than brown spotting.. We also found out we were having a boy and a girl !!!!.. So I am taking things easy and hoping for the best
I have had 4 four losses 3 before 12 weeks and one at 20 weeks.
Sorry no belly pics from me .After 4 kids and 8 pregnancies my tummy is no longer cute !!!!
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March 7th, 2011, 05:16 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Florida
Posts: 7,904
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How long did you TTC? waited 1 month after 2nd m/c
Did you need MA? no
How old is your LO? almost 3 weeks
What is your favorite thing to do with your LO? i love her sleeping on my chest or wearing her in the Moby.
Pictures Please!
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March 7th, 2011, 06:26 PM
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3,616
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Quote:
Originally Posted by .:Shortcake:.
Tobi your belly is so freaking cute! And I cannot wait to find out what your having. For some reason I have a feeling pink for you 
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 thank you Katie!
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March 7th, 2011, 06:45 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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How long did you TTC? 22 months
Did you need MA? We were put on Clomid
How old is your LO? The twins will be 6 months next tues!!!
What is your favorite thing to do with your LO? I don't have just one favorite thing.. I love to play, hold, take them on walks, Watch them sleep, I could go on and on!!!!
Pictures Please!

Last edited by Kary♥RN; March 7th, 2011 at 07:37 PM.
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March 8th, 2011, 07:12 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Clarence, Pa
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Thank you for sharing your stories. I love reading the updates.
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