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March 9th, 2011, 08:33 AM
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My mother in law went in for gallbladder surgery today (pretty routine) and ended up with heart failure on the operating table. She is in ICU and we don't know whats going to happen. Pray for her please. Her name is Martha and I swear she is the sweetest woman ever on this planet, she doesn't have a nasty bone in her body. I don't want her to die. I can't stop crying.
Last edited by missy123; March 9th, 2011 at 01:42 PM.
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March 9th, 2011, 08:36 AM
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I am really sorry to hear about your mother in law's medical emergency.  I hope she gets better quickly and as painlessly as possible.
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March 9th, 2011, 08:44 AM
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Oh no!! That is so scary!!! Sending you and your family tons of prayers and good wishes!!
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March 9th, 2011, 08:48 AM
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Oh my goodness, my thoughts and prayers are with her and your family as well . I hope she has a speedy recovery and feels better soon !!!!!
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March 9th, 2011, 09:36 AM
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she died. she is gone. My Martha is gone and my world is crushed. Oh god, how could you take her from me too? I may not be around much.
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March 9th, 2011, 09:44 AM
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Missy I am so sorry to hear about your mother in law. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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March 9th, 2011, 09:54 AM
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Missy...I am so very sorry sweetie. I love you!
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March 9th, 2011, 09:59 AM
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Oh my. I am so sorry. Thoughts and prayers going out to you and your family.
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March 9th, 2011, 10:05 AM
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Oh Missy I am so sorry. I saw the post and was saying a prayer then saw your update. My heart is breaking for you.
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March 9th, 2011, 11:02 AM
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Missy, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and Red are in my thoughts. We are here for you.
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March 9th, 2011, 11:03 AM
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Missy I am so very sorry for the loss of your mother-in-law. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need ANYTHING please don't hesitate to call me!
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March 9th, 2011, 11:17 AM
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Missy I am so so sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!!!
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March 9th, 2011, 11:32 AM
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Missy I am so so sorry!!! Thinking of you and your family!
Here too if you need anything!
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March 9th, 2011, 11:41 AM
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I am soo sorry Missy. You and your family is in my thoughts. If you need anything just let me know, stay strong honey.
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March 9th, 2011, 12:14 PM
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I don't say things very well with words, so here is a picture that came to my mind when I read your update. I'm sorry.
Angel by Shadeauxe, on Flickr
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March 9th, 2011, 12:37 PM
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Missy,
I am so sorry. LIFE IS NOT FAIR and I think all of here have learned this first hand.
Please take time if you need... but Do not leave me to long. You have been one of the people who has been here the most for me during my hard struggle the last couple weeks.
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March 9th, 2011, 01:10 PM
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I'm so sorry. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. I wish there was more I could do for you.
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March 9th, 2011, 01:35 PM
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Thank you everyone so much for your thoughts and prayers. The last couple of hours have been filled with tears, pain, denial and I am sure a ton of other emotions thrown in there. I sat on the floor begging my husband to call the hospital back and ask them were they sure because they must have made a mistake, people make mistakes right? He just said he was sorry and hugged me.
She was like a mother to me. The first instant I met her I fell completely in love with her. Everyone loved her, she was one of those very rare people that are genuinely nice to everyone and everything and never express a bad word. She was my biggest supporter IRL with my losses, she had a loss herself and understood my pain and always listened to me and could find the most comforting things to say.
I miss her so much already - I can't believe she is gone. She was so full of life and enthusiasm.
We are going to leave in a few hours to make the 12 hour drive down there to be with family and friends. I am not sure how much computer time I will have - but I will try to check in.
Here are a few pictures of Martha from the past year.
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March 9th, 2011, 02:15 PM
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Missy, I dont know how I missed this, but Im so sorry for this tragic loss you and Mike have been handed today. I pray for peace, comfort and the both of you to pull through this. I just dont know how much one person can take......you have the strength of steel. Im around all night and through the weekend if you feel like texting....love to you Missy.
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March 9th, 2011, 02:19 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry! What a heartbreaking day for you and your family! Life can be so unfair sometimes!
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