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March 9th, 2011, 01:17 PM
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What's worse than having a miscarriage? Having a miscarriage and then having your body so screwed up from it that you can't possibly get pregnant again.

I miscarried on January 19. I ovulated on CD 22-23 after that and had a 8-9 day LP....so conception was not possible then. This past cycle I ovulated on CD 6, yes 6, and had my normal 12-day LP.. (AF just showed up on CD 19, when I would ordinarily being ovulating). From what I've read, conception on CD 6 is basically extremely rare and next to impossible, so I didn't really have a chance. I've always been a late O'er and now I am totally paranoid that I'm going to O really early again. I want to take soy this cycle but it's not going to do any good if I'm gearing up to O already.

I have a call in to my doctor but I have a feeling I'm going to get the "Well, it can take your body a few cycles to get back to normal after a miscarriage..." speel. Which I totally get and am fine with, but I mean, really. I lost my baby at 4 weeks 5 days. I know lots of women who miscarried much further along than that and got pregnant within a few months afterwards. I just want to have a DECENT CHANCE to get pregnant again, is that tooo much to ask?
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March 9th, 2011, 02:29 PM
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Oh no! So frustrating! I really hope your doc doesn't give you that line and can actually tell you something useful. I hope your cycle gets back on track soon!
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March 9th, 2011, 02:41 PM
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March 9th, 2011, 03:19 PM
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Keep your chin up! Things always have a way of working out. Just need to try and stay positive. Wishing you luck and happiness in the future!
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March 9th, 2011, 03:30 PM
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HUGS! I would try taking the soy on CD2 and hopefully then it will solve the Oing early... I would also take a B6 vitamin to try to lengthen your LP. It can take your body awhile to get back to normal even after an early loss. I know it's super frustrating.
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March 9th, 2011, 06:08 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope your doctor is able to come up with a solution.
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March 9th, 2011, 11:35 PM
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I read about taking the B6 on here and it has been a godsend !! The first month it added a day onto my LP and this month so far it has added 2 days and still no sign of AF :-) it may well be worth a try for you as well . Good luck !!
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March 10th, 2011, 05:30 AM
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I'm so sorry I know it really sucks to have screwed up cycles after a loss. It's just terrible. One thing your doctor might be willing to test is your thyroid hormone- that can get out of whack during pregnancy and can mess up your cycles. I hope you get some answers
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