[lindsey2000k]

With your tickers and stuff when you you say you lost your little one?

Like my last loss I have marked as when we found out.
But it stopped growing a week before that, & I did not acually loss the baby from my body until 2 days ago.... so not sure when to mark that?

Cause I could go by
8w5d with last growth
10w 1d when I found out
13w 2d when I passed the baby.

I know weird question just want to know what you all think?

[.:Shortcake:.]

I usually go with the day of my m/c or D&C because that is the day that my baby left my body. HTH hun

[Cait&AngelAbove]

I went with the day I began miscarrying.

[StaceygirlPa]

I have always went by the day I found out I lost the baby. Like I put one up for pumpkin but I used yesterday date since that is the day I found out.

[lindsey2000k]

Thats where I am torn because really I said goodbye over 3 weeks ago. I think this is why seeing the baby and stuff was not hard on me and more interesting to me because I already had over 3 weeks of greaving and pretty much moved on to thinking about TTC again.
But then another part of me thinks well but I carried my baby for 13 weeks.


Well I guess my ticker is right then Cause that is the day I said good bye.

Just something I think about.

[StaceygirlPa]

I said good bye to pumpkin yesterday. Now I am where I just want it to end. Which may sound mean because I loved pumpkin so much and wanted pumpkin so bad.

[lindsey2000k]

Originally Posted by StaceygirlPa

I said good bye to pumpkin yesterday. Now I am where I just want it to end. Which may sound mean because I loved pumpkin so much and wanted pumpkin so bad.

No does not sound mean at all.
I am in the same place you are. After I passed the baby I almost felt very good in a way it was finally over after all that waiting.

Wednesday I was freaking out because i had just had enough I called my mom crying that I just want it to be over the planning my life around when the bleeding might start was getting to me. My legs where they attach to my body are raw from wearing pads for almost a month now with the rubbing when I walk. I finaly have this peace over me. Dont get me wrong it hurts and it hurts bad but I feel like now I can move on.


I am just like you when TTC again... no numbers will make me feel safe, not even seeing the heartbeat will make me feel safe. This was my first loss where I saw the heart beat and 3 weeks later is was gone.

[missy123]

Lindsey - There is no right or wrong date to use. Go with what is in your heart - that is what is important.

[KeepingFaith]

I use the day I passed the baby, but that is also the day I found out about the loss. There is no right or wrong. So sorry you had to go through that.

[TnPhotoMama81]

Originally Posted by .:Shortcake:.

I usually go with the day of my m/c or D&C because that is the day that my baby left my body. HTH hun

That is what I go with too.

There is no right or wrong way though IMO. Just go with your heart.

[wishfulgal]

I went with the day I started bleeding, although I found out that it wasn't a viable pregnancy 3 days before that. I figured that if I hadn't had my hcg levels drawn, I would never have known that I lost the baby until the day I started bleeding anyway. But I had already been by the time I started bleeding, so it is kind of confusing to think about when I actually lost my angel. I don't think there is any right or wrong way to look at it.

[Banned-elly03]

I hope you are still doing okay, I've been thinking about you since our talk.
I just but "M/C __wks _days EDD: 2011 ____ __", so I am not hope, sorry.
Go with your heart, and just know that you/we will remember the three stages youwent through, so you baby will not be forgotten

[ohnicole]

Lindsey, whatever feels right to you is what you should do. I went with the day of my D&C, but I really think of it as a 3 day period in my mind.