Crappy day yesterday

angel3y35 · #1 March 19th, 2011, 06:15 PM

I know I've been missing lately but know that I'm lurking and reading and praying for all of you every day. Right now the busy time at working is starting. Plus when I went to file my intent to graduate a few weeks ago I found out I still have two classes until I can graduate. So now works picking up, I'm taking two classes, have to finish my paralegal certificate course by June, and trying to get the adoption stuff moving. If I survive the next few months it'll be a miracle.

Anyway. Yesterday was rough. I was hormonal b/c AF was ready show (she did about 2 hours ago). Then right after lunch I found out a girl at work was pregnant. We had been wondering why she was so angry/upset on Thursday. She was in and out on her cell all day. Then yesterday she was crying all day. It was a huge slap in the face to see someone who had such an amazing blessing be so upset about it. It wasn't planned and she doesn't want it. It took everything I had to make it through the day. One of the ladies at work made me feel a tiny bit better. She said "maybe this is the baby God has meant for you". Who knows, maybe it is. Then on the way home I was coming through an intersection. There was a turn lane on my left with a truck pulling a trailer that had just gotten in it and was coming towards me. Then this &(%^$(& in the merge lane on my right doesn't even look and just pulls into the lane. I had nowhere to go, squished in between two trucks. I have NO idea how we didn't have a huge cluster right there. I even left tire marks on the road from hitting the breaks so hard.

If you made it through all of this you deserve a present

ohnicole · #2 March 19th, 2011, 07:22 PM

I'm so sorry

That situation at work sounds unbearable. Life really isn't fair. I hope you have a better week!

j&jmom · #3 March 19th, 2011, 07:52 PM

Wow! More like you deserve a present after such a rough day. I really hope things get better. It would be very hard to see a pg person being upset about being pg.

JanessaFaith · #4 March 19th, 2011, 10:06 PM

IIts so unfair when unplanned and unwanted pregnancies happen before the ones that are so deeply wanted. Hugs to you.

.:Shortcake:. · #5 March 20th, 2011, 05:10 AM

Paige I have been wondering how you are doing. How are you healing from the surgery? Sorry to hear about the crappy situation at work but maybe you friend is right.. maybe that is mean to be one of your babies

I hope the two classes go well for you

StaceygirlPa · #6 March 20th, 2011, 06:01 AM

I am sorry you are having such a hard time. I hope things get better for you.

pepper73 · #7 March 20th, 2011, 06:34 AM

That is a rough day and it is so unfair to see someone with an unplanned pregnancy and being upset about it. I'm glad you weren't hurt by those idiot drivers!

angel3y35 · #8 March 20th, 2011, 08:27 AM

I'm pretty much healed from the surgery, thanks for asking! I had one incision get infected but it's good now. My first post surgery AF started last night (I don't count the one 2 days after surgery). It wasn't as bad as I expected.

hopeful211 · #9 March 20th, 2011, 08:41 AM

I'm so sorry!!! I hate it when people get upset about unplanned pgs, if they only knew what we go through, but then again we don't know what they go through... there is adoption and ways to prevent pg if you don't want a child.... ugh. Then stupid drivers! I'm glad you are ok! Hope next week goes better for ya!

angel3y35 · #10 March 20th, 2011, 08:47 AM

You're right we don't know what they're going through. It took a lot last night but as I was lying in bed I started praying for her. I do know her boyfriend was disabled from a bad horse riding accident. I don't know if he still is or if he's working.