Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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March 28th, 2011, 12:16 PM
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POAS Queen
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Location: San Diego, CA
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Man. So we had one woman in our DDC who was adopting from a girl due in November, but she got pregnant a few months before the baby came, and by now I'm thinking she should have them both at home with her. Then we had another woman who just had twins that got pregnant with them AND again right after she had them while she was on Mirena. Another girl announced her pregnancy something like two weeks ago, and in the past few days we've had two more announce themselves.
I mean, congrats to them and all, seriously, but... I want my BFP
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.

^^ Click graphic for chart ^^

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March 28th, 2011, 12:22 PM
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It's me
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Massachusetts
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Yeah. It's easy to get sucked into the "Why not me?" thing. I never noticed how many people are pregnant around me before. It doesn't bother me much at all because my loss was super early, but it's funny what you notice after you go through any type of ordeal.
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March 28th, 2011, 12:35 PM
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POAS Queen
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Yeah... I'm actually really excited for them, which is strange 'cause I have an IRL friend (really more like wife of a good friend) who just found out she's pregnant maybe 2 weeks ago and I'm very angry about that one.
I'm finding myself wanting to buy baby presents for someone who's 3-4wks pregnant, lol. I love my PR ladies.
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.

^^ Click graphic for chart ^^

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March 28th, 2011, 01:01 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Ohio
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(((ERIN))))
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March 28th, 2011, 01:20 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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There have been times in the last 6-7 months I have had to step away from my PR because of all the BFP's. I think I was the first TTC and 2 losses later still nothing.
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March 28th, 2011, 01:35 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Hugs Erin. Like Courtney said you never realize how many are around you until you want to be there yourself. Your not alone. Love you lady!
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March 28th, 2011, 02:55 PM
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Wife/Mommy/Photographer
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Oneida, TN
Posts: 7,313
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Yeah like everyone in my PR is on their second or third babies...
I hope you get your + soon *hugs*
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March 28th, 2011, 05:36 PM
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***Staying Positive***
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Coushatta, La
Posts: 7,147
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Hang in there!! I hope you get your BFP soon!
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March 28th, 2011, 10:39 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Feb 2011
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Shadeauxe
Yeah. It's easy to get sucked into the "Why not me?" thing. I never noticed how many people are pregnant around me before. It doesn't bother me much at all because my loss was super early, but it's funny what you notice after you go through any type of ordeal.
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ditto!
I hope you get your BFP soon, and another one after that (if you want) so you can be a FH  too!
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