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March 30th, 2011, 06:47 AM
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So it isn't nice bc I'm not... I've gained some weight, like ten lbs prolly haven't weighed myself these paast 3 months and I gqin weight in my belly area first and I'm prob 120 now and this week 3 times I've had the comment are you pg or you look pg... ***!!!! Its frustrating
So very tmi!!!!!!!
I don't plan on hearing this anymore....HAD bowel issues for 2 or 3 weeks and now my tummy doesn't have that "baby bump" look anymore, hopefully I will have it again soon and is bc it is a baby!!!! I was wondering how my belly had put on that much centralized weight, I've been stressed at work so didn't even think of this issue... all better now!
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March 30th, 2011, 06:54 AM
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People need to learn to keep their mouths shut. Have they never been told unless you actually see a baby coming out of a woman do not ask if she is pregnant!
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March 30th, 2011, 08:12 AM
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Ditto what Sam said! Ugh I'm sorry hun 
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March 30th, 2011, 09:44 AM
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I am really sorry and can relate. After I quit smoking, I gained 20lbs and most of it went to my belly, thighs and face. I look 20+ weeks pregnant! It is really frustrating and feels like a stab of pain because that is all you really want IS to be pregnant. ((Hugs)) I am sorry.
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March 30th, 2011, 09:49 AM
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They are obviously stupid. No person with any sense would say something like that even if they thought it.
My reply would be, "No. I'm just fat. Thanks for being a d0uchebag. Shall I start pointing out some of your flaws now?"
I think I must give of this vibe, because no one ever says this kind of stuff to me. Or tried to touch me when I was pregnant. Or give me advice about my children.
See my signature regarding stupid people. They are everywhere. Like zombies, only harder to spot.
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March 30th, 2011, 09:53 AM
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I am sorry! That is really not nice of people.
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March 30th, 2011, 04:21 PM
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"I'm actually not pregnant, but my doctor and I are working to help me get back down to my desired weight. I could refer you to her if you want though, she might be able to help you with your baldness / halitosis / acne / etc.!"
I'm sorry, that would be frustrating for any woman, but especially one who wants so badly to actually be pregnant.
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Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
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March 30th, 2011, 06:18 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Erin84
"I'm actually not pregnant, but my doctor and I are working to help me get back down to my desired weight. I could refer you to her if you want though, she might be able to help you with your baldness / halitosis / acne / etc.!"
I'm sorry, that would be frustrating for any woman, but especially one who wants so badly to actually be pregnant.
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March 30th, 2011, 06:26 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Shadeauxe
They are obviously stupid. No person with any sense would say something like that even if they thought it.
My reply would be, "No. I'm just fat. Thanks for being a d0uchebag. Shall I start pointing out some of your flaws now?"
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Love this! I really need to get this vibe so people will leave me alone.
I'm so sorry you have to deal with idiots!
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March 30th, 2011, 06:36 PM
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The same thing happened to me last week - 5 days after my m/c. Awesome. I'm probably 5lbs over weight so nothing crazy. I started bawling and the woman felt terrible. But I feel for you. I can't believe people say things like that.
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March 30th, 2011, 08:17 PM
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My response was nope I've just got fat and laughed it off..... so embarassed!!!!!
Thank you ladies for your support
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March 31st, 2011, 02:43 AM
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People need to learn to mind their own business. I am sorry you had to go through that.
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March 31st, 2011, 10:21 AM
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Sorry about the extreme details, I'm just sooo happy a few more pair of pants fit again
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March 31st, 2011, 10:23 AM
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Glad it's all better now 
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March 31st, 2011, 11:44 AM
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Courtney you remind me so much of myself. Lol.
I don't have a filter so I tend to say exactly what is on my mind as soon as it comes to my mind. Bad part is that I am Cajun, and they tend not to hold back. My father and sister are much worse than I am though. I would have probably made a very rude and direct comment back. That is just me though.
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