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April 3rd, 2011, 03:13 PM
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I'm 11 DPO, BFNs since 8 DPO, and am really starting to feel "out." AF should be due Wednesday at 14 DPO (CD 1). I'm wondering, for those who go the "test early, test often" route, what's the longest it's taken you to get a BFP?
I know I'm not out till the fat lady sings or whatever, just feeling like it's another game-over cycle.
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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April 3rd, 2011, 03:17 PM
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This last one was 9dop (althought I thought I saw something at 8 but was not sure).
With DD it was 11dpo but 4 years ago the tests were not as great as they are now.
My other 2 pregnancys were OPPS and I was almost 6 weeks before I even knew I was pregnant.
Still holding out hope for you!
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April 3rd, 2011, 03:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Okay for me it has varied with all my pregnancies. The earliest I have gotten a BFP was 8dpo and the latest is 16dpo so 2 days after AF was due. So it really does vary hun. I know it's hard to hold out hope but try to 
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April 3rd, 2011, 03:30 PM
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It's me
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I am only 1 dpo and I am skeptical that this will be the month for me. Hopefully we're both wrong.
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April 3rd, 2011, 03:34 PM
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For me in the last couple years, it has been between 8 and 10dpo. With the sensitivity the way it is now, I think thats why we get them so earlly. These were with both m/c's and my pregnancy to term. For me though with my lp being only 12days, if I did not see a + before or on 10dpo, I always knew it was over for me. With my dd who is 8, I tested the whole week before I was due and saw nothing on the hpt until the day AF was due.
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April 3rd, 2011, 03:36 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I got mine right around 12 DPO with this pregnancy. My first pregnancy, I have no idea what DPO cuz I didn't know when i ovulated.
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April 3rd, 2011, 03:39 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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With my first pg, I didn't get my BFP until 12 dpo, and it was super faint... DH didn't even believe me. I know it gets so hard, but you're not out yet!
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April 3rd, 2011, 03:44 PM
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I'm 10-11dpo too and have gotten all BFN's. But last time (november) I did not get a BFP until 2 days after AF was due I think it was like 14dpo, and I was testing everyday for a week. I'm not sure if I have extreme PMS right now or what, but I feel different, SO I will keep testing until AF shows.
Are you having any symptoms?
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April 3rd, 2011, 07:02 PM
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POAS Queen
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Thanks for the stories, especially for the girls I know test like madwomen with brands we're all familiar with 
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Originally Posted by KeepingFaith
I'm 10-11dpo too and have gotten all BFN's. But last time (november) I did not get a BFP until 2 days after AF was due I think it was like 14dpo, and I was testing everyday for a week. I'm not sure if I have extreme PMS right now or what, but I feel different, SO I will keep testing until AF shows.
Are you having any symptoms?
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No symptoms, but I didn't really have any with Drew either this early on. The only thing was that I started eating weird food, either stuff I didn't normally like or things that shouldn't go together, and my boobs swelled up. We were NTNP then and I had no idea when my period was due or anything, just bopping along and living life, so they were real symptoms for sure and not just IPS 
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
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April 3rd, 2011, 07:02 PM
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Veteran
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Of my three pregnancies the latest BFP I got was 13dpo. With the other two it was either 8 or 9dpo.
Don't give up hope yet!
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April 3rd, 2011, 07:13 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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This cycle was the only one I knew exactly how many DPO I was...I tested starting at 10DPO at least once, sometimes 2 or 3, times a day and I didn't get a + until 14 DPO and it was sooooo super faint. I took two FRER's out of the same urine cup and one of them was super faint, but one looked like a BFN! The next day (15 DPO, AF was due) I took a digi and it was +. So even though I tested early I didn't get a BFP til 14 and it was still questionable to me at that point...with my last ones, I don't know exact dates but I know I concieved my son on Feb 14th (only time we DTD cuz I knew I was pregnant from it) and didn't get a + til early Mar, like Mar 3 I want to say. But I had tested so much during the second week after the 14th that when I took it on the 3rd, the FRER was faint, but much darker then the one I had with this pregnancy. good luck!
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April 4th, 2011, 03:24 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Ahhh Erin did you test today?!?
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April 4th, 2011, 03:41 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Still holding out hope for you Erin.
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April 4th, 2011, 05:17 AM
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POAS Queen
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BFN. I temped this morning too, very ugly. Not AF ugly, but low.
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
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April 4th, 2011, 05:29 AM
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*~Mom to Faith Marie~*
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I'm sorry you got a BFN  I did too on a FRER. I am feeling so sad now, I hate how a BFN ruins your whole day. I still have some hope for us though! Stay away AF!
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April 4th, 2011, 05:30 AM
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I don't have any story to help because, like you, I wasn't really paying attention. At some point it just occurred to me that I might be late and I tested. Same with the loss pregnancy.
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April 4th, 2011, 05:36 AM
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I'm sorry Erin
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April 4th, 2011, 06:17 AM
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The earliest I have ever gotten a BFP was 9 DPO and that was super faint, and twins. Usual is 11-12 DPO.
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April 4th, 2011, 10:59 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I usually got BFPs around 10 DPO I got one as late as 12 DPO, but everyone is different..... Some girls don't get BFPs until 16 DPO or later...
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April 4th, 2011, 11:18 AM
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Maybe all that B6 is extending everything?
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