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April 4th, 2011, 09:48 AM
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I got a bfp today on a digi. I tested yesterday with a @store test and a FRER. The lines were super faint, so much so that I was not sure they were there. This morning I tested with a $store test and there was for sure a line there. I went ahead and dipped a digi since I have a few of them, and it came up pregnant. I was shocked with my lack of emotion when I saw the word on the test. When I was looking at the lined tests I was excited at the possibility of being pregnant, but seeing the word kind of made me go numb. I am excited, but I am more scared at this point. I am having a beta drawn tomorrow and again on Thursday. Maybe I will be able to get more excited when I see those numbers go up.
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April 4th, 2011, 09:57 AM
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Congrats! I hope you get good numbers tomorrow so you can feel a little better. *Sticky dust* for you!
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April 4th, 2011, 10:01 AM
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Congrats!! I know that numbing feeling.....it will go away soon....praying for great numbers for you!!
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April 4th, 2011, 10:07 AM
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I totally understand the mixed emotions you must be feeling but hopefully the test results will help ease your mind and take away some anxiety. Please keep us posted!!
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April 4th, 2011, 10:11 AM
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Hugs! Praying for you and sending you lots of sticky dust. I know it's hard to get excited and I feel the same way but hopefully in time you will find the enjoyment with your pregnancy! Congrats Wishing you a healthy & happy 9 months!
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April 4th, 2011, 10:14 AM
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Congrats! I know how hard it is to be excited when there are so many "what ifs" going through your head but each day will be a little easier and a little more exciting. I hope you have great betas that can help put your mind at ease during these early and stressful weeks.
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April 4th, 2011, 10:55 AM
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Congrats on you BFP! I know how hard early pregnancy is after a loss. I hope everything turns out wonderfully!

You should come check out the Pregnancy After Loss board! There are tons of supportive ladies over there that know exactly what you are feeling.
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April 4th, 2011, 10:58 AM
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Congrats!!!! I totally understand the numb feeling too. You want to be excited, and another part of you keeps holding you back. Can't wait to hear your great numbers over the next couple of days!
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April 4th, 2011, 11:22 AM
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I am right there with you. I got a BFP today too. I feel the exact same way.
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April 4th, 2011, 11:31 AM
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I got a BFP about 2 weeks ago, and I still feel that way. Hopefully after those numbers go up, you'll relax! (And me, too!)
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April 4th, 2011, 11:47 AM
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Congratulations!! You will go through a range of emotions that change from minute to minute.
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April 4th, 2011, 12:15 PM
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Congratulations!!! I hope you get great news from the doctor and that you're able get past the numb and into the excited.
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April 4th, 2011, 12:33 PM
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I know it's so hard hun. Just take it one day at a time.

Oh, and Congrats again!
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April 4th, 2011, 12:55 PM
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I know that numb feeling well. I hope that this is your sticky bean!
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April 4th, 2011, 04:57 PM
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Thank you ladies. You have been so wonderful and supportive during this time. I hope that you all get your bfps soon!
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April 4th, 2011, 04:59 PM
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I hope that the excitement starts creeping in soon
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April 4th, 2011, 06:13 PM
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Yay!!! Congratulations!!
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