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April 5th, 2011, 01:03 PM
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So AF is supposed to be on her way tomorrow. My temperature this morning was actually higher than yesterday morning's temp, which is odd, but my body is super weird and will do that RARELY and then plummet the next day, bringing AF along right on time. So that by itself isn't making me nutty.

I can't remember exactly, but I THINK the evening of 11 DPO, I was having some strange cramping. DH and I were about to DTD and I started getting weird cramps. I was wondering if AF was going to come early... We went ahead and DTD, but I didn't "O" (you know, the non-ovulation kind of O ) because if it were implantation cramping then I didn't want to do anything to potentially mess it up, lol.

So today I'm 13 DPO. If I were expecting AF tomorrow, I might or might not see a little pink spotting on the toilet paper. Never in my life have I gotten brown, dried blood on the toilet paper before AF, and that's what happened just now. again, it was like brown CM kind of, or more appropriately, probably dried blood mixed with CM. So peculiar.

So here I go getting my hopes back up THE DAY BEFORE AF IS DUE. I feel dumb for this, but I guess it's just in my nature. We'll see what my temp looks like in the morning I guess and go from there. TTC is such a rollercoaster.
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)


Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.




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April 5th, 2011, 01:05 PM
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Don't feel dumb. It's good to be optimistic.
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April 5th, 2011, 01:05 PM
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Why don't you just test? Or do you not test early? I never liked to test early so I don't blame you but those sound like promising symptoms. I hope this is your sticky BFP.
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April 5th, 2011, 01:05 PM
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Like I said in your other thread, I didn't get my BFP til 14 DPO, 1 day before AF and even then it was kinda questionable... good luck!
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April 5th, 2011, 01:09 PM
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Why don't you just test? Or do you not test early? I never liked to test early so I don't blame you but those sound like promising symptoms. I hope this is your sticky BFP.
I've been testing since 8 DPO All BFNs so far.
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)


Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.




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April 5th, 2011, 01:11 PM
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I meant to say, I don't think you're dumb.
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April 5th, 2011, 01:12 PM
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Well.. still sounds promising. It's not over until the fat lady sings!
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April 5th, 2011, 01:15 PM
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From what I understand it takes 2-4 days after implantation bleeding to show a BFP. I would have my hopes up too!! And you shouldn't feel dumb...I hope you get your BFP!!
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April 5th, 2011, 01:22 PM
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I am so hopeful for you as well!! Its good to have hope!
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April 5th, 2011, 01:31 PM
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Erin do not feel dumb! I am praying this is it for you. It does sound really promising and you have to stay positive.
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April 5th, 2011, 01:46 PM
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Oh, I hope you get a BFP tomorrow! I had weird cramping with my last BFP, but it didn't show up until I was two days late!
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April 5th, 2011, 01:46 PM
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I agree!! Optimism is a good thing!! I hope AF stays away and those BFN's turn into one blaring BFP!
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April 5th, 2011, 01:49 PM
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I am keeping my fingers crossed for you Erin!!
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April 5th, 2011, 03:12 PM
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I am holding out hope for you Erin. I hope tomorrow you get your BFP tomorrow.
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April 5th, 2011, 05:30 PM
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Weirdness always makes me hopeful! I really, really hope AF stays away and you get your BFP soon!
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April 5th, 2011, 05:34 PM
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Don't feel dumb for having hope!!! I think we would all feel the same way I have everything crossed that these are real pregnancy symptoms for you!
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April 5th, 2011, 05:49 PM
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I keep checking to see if you have any more news! I think TTC makes us all a little crazy, but I definitely do not think it is dumb to have hope. I hope it all works out for you and you get a BFP soon!
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April 5th, 2011, 05:56 PM
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April 5th, 2011, 06:24 PM
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Anytime I had brown cm just before AF I was pregnant. I hope this is the real deal for you Erin!!!
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