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April 5th, 2011, 07:43 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2010
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Hey! We just had another miscarriage. Last time we waited for the first cycle and then started trying again. I soooo don't want to wait this time even one cycle. There are mixed opinions out there. What do you guys all feel/know. I'm concerned about the unterine lining being too thin. Would it be? I had a blighted ovum around 7 weeks, and then finally miscarried using misoprostol last sunday, I was almost 12 weeks.
What do you all think? I took a hpt today and there was the faintest line so (yay!) my hormones are almost down to nil again.
Let me know! Thanks guys!!
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April 5th, 2011, 08:46 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 2,946
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I'm so sorry for your loss... That's heartbreaking.
DH and I didn't wait. We jumped right in. (well we were NTNP for a while before we actually decided to try)
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April 6th, 2011, 04:27 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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My doctor said the only reason to wait one cycle was for dating purposes. She said if my body wasn't ready to get pregnant I wouldn't. Good luck ttc! I am so sorry you had to go through another loss!
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April 6th, 2011, 04:37 AM
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POAS Queen
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: San Diego, CA
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I agree that your body won't get pregnant if it's not ready. DH and I started trying right away after Drew was born, even before my first cycle came (that happened about 7.5 weeks post-partum), and my midwife didn't have a problem with that. It all depends on you, really, and your comfort level. Some ladies feel more comfortable waiting a cycle, they feel "cleared out," while others jump right in. Unless your doc gave you a very specific reason to wait, it's really more up to you than him/her  Not sure how the mistopropol plays into that though, maybe someone else can help you more specifically considering you took a med to help the process along. Sorry about your losses 
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
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April 6th, 2011, 06:14 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Maine
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I'm so sorry for your losses! I agree with the others. Unless there is a medical reason, the decision is really up to you and what you feel you are ready for. Good luck and keep us posted!
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April 6th, 2011, 06:15 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Ditto to the other ladies. I always disagree with the dating reason, because I track when I O, so LMP isn't that vital. Doctors just want to keep it all nice and tidy.
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April 6th, 2011, 07:07 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: South Carolina
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I am so sorry for your loss. I think it is okay to go ahead and jump back in when you feel emotionally ready.
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April 6th, 2011, 09:30 AM
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I would go for it 
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April 6th, 2011, 11:33 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Not sure about the meds you used, I would ask your dr. how long it stays in your blood and if it could effect a new pregnancy. With that said, your body will know when its ready again, so trying right away wont hurt any and may make your healing process better knowing you are trying. Good luck and Im so sorry for yet another loss....
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April 6th, 2011, 12:05 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Aug 2010
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Just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. My doctor agrees with what everyone else has said - that if you are emotionally ready, then you can go right on ahead and try.
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April 6th, 2011, 07:24 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
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I'm sorry for your loss.
We had our second loss in January, and I was so upset that we decided to NTNP for a few months. I was even sort-of preventing the first cycle, but I ovulated sooner than I expected, and surprise I got pregnant again. I'm now almost 13 weeks with this baby that was conceived less than 3 weeks after my loss, and so far everything is looking good (knock on wood). I hope you get your sticky baby soon, when you are ready.
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