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April 8th, 2011, 07:32 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Would you rather be locked in a room with your worst enemy for 24 hours or your MIL?
You have to tell us why too 
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April 8th, 2011, 07:35 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I would take my MIL. She is no longer alive but I can talk to her in spirit I beleive.
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April 8th, 2011, 07:36 AM
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It's me
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I'd have to go with the worst enemy because otherwise I'd be spending 24 hours with a dead body. Not that I even know who my worst enemy is.
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April 8th, 2011, 07:49 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I would have to go with my worst enemy. Since many of you have been reading my post about my MIL most of you know that we don't get along at all.
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April 8th, 2011, 07:52 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'd go with my MIL... we don't get along the best but I'd rather be with her for 24 hours rather than an enemy 
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April 8th, 2011, 08:44 AM
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*~Mom to Faith Marie~*
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I don't really have a worst enemy, so I guess my MIL, even though she is CRAZY!
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April 8th, 2011, 09:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Definitely my MIL...she is the greatest.
I would end up in jail if I were stuck with my worst enemy...lol
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April 8th, 2011, 02:43 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I would definately go with my MIL. She and I are extremely close.
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April 8th, 2011, 07:29 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Location: Washington
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MIL I really like her and we get along fairly well  .
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April 8th, 2011, 07:40 PM
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POAS Queen
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I'd go with my MIL because I love her And if I didn't feel like chatting, she'd hang out and knit while I read or something <3
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
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April 8th, 2011, 07:55 PM
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Super Mommy
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Definitely MIL. SHe HATES, and I mean, HATES DH with a passion. She's just an evil woman, but on the bright side, she has never spoken a word to me. I've actually never met her although we've been in the same house at the same time, at social family functions together, etc... she simply doesn't want anythign to do with me. Or with DH, althugh she says rude, horrid things about him to his kids, his ex-wife and her family. So 24 hours with her would be nice and quiet. Unless she started taking trash about DH, and then I could smack her one. Ha.
Oh, and people ask what he did to deserve this treatment...he was born. That's all.
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April 8th, 2011, 10:53 PM
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Hopes To Be A Mommy
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My worst enemy... My MIL would be so awkward... She doesn't hate me but just an awkward person
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April 9th, 2011, 07:14 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I have no idea who my worst enemy is, so I guess I'd pick MIL . . . as long as I only get one. Dealing with my MIL and my husbands step mother in the same room would probably be bad (or maybe funny) who knows.
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April 9th, 2011, 10:42 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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It's interesting to see who picks who and for what reasons
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April 9th, 2011, 11:57 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I am the only one who said worst enemy. My MIL is just evil. She was so nasty to one of Dh's sister's last week that she wont go back to see her so far. I stopped on Thursday to see her and to drop of some things for her she was so cold to me. Now if Dh was there with me she would say oh I need a hug and kiss from you. 
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April 10th, 2011, 06:54 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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My worst enemy. My MIL is an evil wench. She is so disrespectful to DH, and in her deluded head she thinks she's a loving mother. A few years ago her mother passed away and we went to Virginia for the funeral. She shared a hotel room with DH and me. The first night DH fell asleep and she and I were left awake and talking. She started talking about how DH was a mistake. I tried to clarify and asked if she meant surprise since they weren't ttc. She said, "No I meant what I said- a mistake."  He has never done ANYTHING to warrant being called a mistake. That's just a little taste of what a waste she is. So, yeah, I'd definitely rather be trapped with my worst enemy, because I'd probably wind up ripping out MIL's vocal cords. I so wish I could have a nice MIL!
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April 10th, 2011, 10:40 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by StaceygirlPa
I am the only one who said worst enemy. My MIL is just evil. She was so nasty to one of Dh's sister's last week that she wont go back to see her so far. I stopped on Thursday to see her and to drop of some things for her she was so cold to me. Now if Dh was there with me she would say oh I need a hug and kiss from you. |
I'm sorry things aren't going better with her Stacey 
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April 10th, 2011, 12:16 PM
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Wookie's Girl
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My worst enemy. That way I can take out my aggression.
I love my MIL. She is a little pushy, but she means well and loves my DH.
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April 10th, 2011, 12:19 PM
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Veteran
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I would probably have to go with my worst enemy, just because I have so little respect for my MIL. She is not a nice person or a good mother and I have nothing in common with her. I keep my mouth shut out of respect for DH and the desire for my kids to know all their grandparents, but 24 hours alone with her would really test my ability to bite my tongue. No one cares what you say to your worst enemy, but I could hurt my family if I told my MIL how I really feel.
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April 10th, 2011, 11:22 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm pretty sure I don't have a worst enemy, but I would track one down so I could choose to be locked with them rather than my MIL! 
My MIL is not a bad person and I know she means well. But she is one of the world's most annoying people and is nuts and makes me nuts. I can't think of anyone I would like LESS to be locked up with, lets put it that way (besides a serial rapist/murderer or something).
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