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April 12th, 2011, 05:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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Hello Everyone! I am really sad to be joining here, but hope to find support. My husband and I just lost our baby.  We have diagnosed fertility issues. I do not ovulate well enough and he has vericocele which has really damaged his sperm. We were able to conceive on our own with our first (took us about a year) and we were able to conceive again with our angel baby.
The Dr is going to put me on Clomid my next cycle and my husband has repair surgery scheduled from the first week in June.
My name is Anna (26) and DH is Jon (29). We have one beautiful daughter named Bella (16 months).
I look forward to getting to know everyone. I hope that I can find some comfort here. My body and emotions are still going through so much after losing the baby. I would rather never get pregnant again then loose one again. Hopefully things work out a lot better next time.
I plan on waiting until my next period comes to start trying again but thought I would introduce myself and start getting to know everyone.
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April 12th, 2011, 05:17 PM
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*~Mom to Faith Marie~*
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Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: Massachusetts
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I am so sorry for your loss. This is a great place to come, it will definitely help you through this hard time. 
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April 12th, 2011, 05:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Maine
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Hi and welcome! I am so sorry for your loss and all of your struggles! This really is a great board and I hope you are able to find the same support here that I have!
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April 12th, 2011, 05:33 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Ohio
Posts: 5,185
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Welcome Anna.
I think I might remember you from TTC. I got pregnant in Jan but lost my baby.
So sorry for your loss.
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April 12th, 2011, 05:34 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Welcome. I am so very sorry for your loss. The ladies here are amazing and super supportive. Hugs!
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April 12th, 2011, 05:46 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Aug 2010
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a pregnancy is heartbreaking, and I can totally relate to your feelings on never wanting to go through it again. But this board is full of amazing women who are wonderfully supportive. Welcome!
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April 12th, 2011, 05:53 PM
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Wookie's Girl
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Texas
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Welcome to the boards. Everyone here knows your pain. You are in a good place.
The urologist found a cyst on one of my hubby's testicles and it has affected his sperm count. We were lucky though that we can still conceive even with his lower sperm count. So I feel you there.
It'll be ok. You'll get that baby.
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April 12th, 2011, 06:35 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 7,934
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I am so sorry for your loss!! I look forward too getting to know you.
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April 12th, 2011, 09:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 8,867
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I am so sorry for your loss! (((HUGS))) I know exactly what you mean about not wanting to do it again. Everybody said you can start ttc when you're emotionally ready. I thought that was interesting because, emotionally, I am certainly ready to have another baby. Emotionally though, I have no idea how I'd handle a m/c at this point. (((HUGS))) again.
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April 12th, 2011, 11:12 PM
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Hopes To Be A Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Utah
Posts: 851
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Sorry for your loss! Every single one of us know how you feel which makes it a good safe place...
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April 13th, 2011, 06:01 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Clarence, Pa
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So sorry for you loss. I hope you can fine some surport from this wonderful board.
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April 13th, 2011, 07:15 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: illinois
Posts: 6,536
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Anna, Im glad to see you over here.........you will find lots of support and love here from these wonderful women. Im so sorry for your loss, and pray that your next little baby is a sticky, healthy one.........Glad that dh has his surgery scheduled so soon and with the clomid, sounds like you have a great game plan.
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April 13th, 2011, 12:31 PM
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POAS Queen
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: San Diego, CA
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Anna, I'm sorry to hear about your sweet baby I'm very glad you decided to come here though. Lots of women will come here even while they're still waiting to start trying again, and I'm glad you feel comfortable enough to do that. I look forward to getting to know you!
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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April 13th, 2011, 01:19 PM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Texas
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oh Anna, i'm so sorry to see you in here...and so terribly sorry for your loss (((HUGS))).
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Originally Posted by -Anna-
I would rather never get pregnant again then loose one again. Hopefully things work out a lot better next time. |
I felt the exact same way after my loss...for a couple of months I couldn't even imagine TTC again for fear of the grief in losing another. As you heal emotionally & physically it will get a little easier (still scary, but a bit easier)
I wish you the best of luck as you TTC again...
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