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April 20th, 2011, 05:19 AM
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So... I have been in an off mood.... and... I could not figure out why... Things are a bit crazy but.. you know... life has.. been ok if not good... I have lost 20 pounds... I got a free exercise bike a couple of months ago, tomorrow I'm getting a new (used) treadmill tomorrow,I get to try a new MA cycle soon, even though it will be crazy, we are moving back to the states ... over all things are pretty good... and then while I was writing my last post I realized why I have been so cranky... a year ago tomorrow I got my BFP for the twins I lost.. and while I'm dealing with it better then I was at first.. I still have to push it down, the pain I mean sometimes... and my neighbor is pregnant and I'm happy for her... I honestly am... it just.. to see her baby belly stings... people have told me that the firsts will hurt.. the first due dates, the first would be birthdays, first everythings... I guess I just did not realize how much.. this would hurt and now I feel silly that just something as simple as the reminder of the day I got my BFP could trow me so off kilter... sorry but thanks for letting me vent..
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April 20th, 2011, 09:00 AM
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I am so sorry. I completely know how you feel. My SIL is pregnant and it due two weeks before my due date. I have to see her next week and I am dreading seeing her.
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April 20th, 2011, 12:02 PM
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I'm so sorry you're hurting. Nothing about losing a baby (or in your case, babies) is easy. Not the loss itself, and not the way that we remind ourselves all the time what could have been. I hope you get through this anniversary and things get a little easier for you.

On another note...Way to go for losing 20 pounds!!! That is quite the accomplishment.
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April 20th, 2011, 02:10 PM
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Congrats on the weight loss!

The firsts are very hard I think the worst for me was around the Nov due date...I had a very hard month. *hugs for you* I am sorry you have to go through this
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April 20th, 2011, 04:06 PM
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I'm so sorry. Anniversaries are always hard. Super big massive hugs! Congrats on the weight loss though
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April 20th, 2011, 04:14 PM
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The anniversary's are really hard. Try to do something nice for YOU, even if it is something small.
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