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April 20th, 2011, 01:11 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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I told you all that I finally, after over a year, got a BFP on Friday.
I started spotting this afternoon. I just can't go through another miscarriage. I know it could be nothing (I spotted early with both my other pregnancies)...BUT I've dreamt the last 3 nights in a row that I've had another miscarriage. I chalked that up to just being terrified but now I'm thinking what if my brain knew something I didn't know yet.
I'm bawling my eyes out and just don't know what to do...I want to believe it's nothing... 
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“Before you were conceived, I wanted you...
Before you were born, I loved you...
Before you were here an hour, I would die for you...
This is the miracle of love.” -Maureen Mansfield
 (6), (3) and a  due Dec. 25, 2011 and one  up above and forever in our hearts.
Last edited by hubshope; April 25th, 2011 at 07:19 PM.
Reason: Bad title
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April 20th, 2011, 02:12 PM
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I am so sorry....when do you go to the doctor?? please KUP. I hope and pray everything is ok!
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April 20th, 2011, 02:15 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Ohio
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I am so sorry.
KUP
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April 20th, 2011, 02:37 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Aug 2010
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I am so sorry you are having to deal with this worry. I hope that you stop spotting and that your little bean is perfectly healthy. KUP and know that we are here for you either way.
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April 20th, 2011, 03:02 PM
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Wookie's Girl
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Definately call your doctor and keep us updated. It might be nothing.
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April 20th, 2011, 03:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: South Carolina
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I am so sorry! Please keep us posted.
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April 20th, 2011, 04:02 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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I'm so sorry your having to go through this. I would call your doctor and see if you can get beta done ASAP and check your progesterone level. Please KUP!
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April 20th, 2011, 08:56 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Location: Washington
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I would call the dr. If it helps I have had nightmares throughout my pregnancy and even went in today for a heartbeat check. All is fine. I even spotted the 2 days after my BFP and have had cramping throughout the first trimester. I don't know if it helps ease your fears but sometimes it really is ok. KUP, sending T&P.
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April 21st, 2011, 05:09 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Maine
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I'm sorry you are dealing with this! I really hope it's nothing and your little bean is fine and happily sticking around. I agree with the others to call your doctor just to get everything checked out. Please keep us posted!
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April 22nd, 2011, 05:29 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm praying it's just spotting that goes with a normal, healthy pregnancy! Any update?
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April 22nd, 2011, 05:41 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Any update? Thinking of you!
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April 22nd, 2011, 06:44 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hi Girls...sorry I didn't update you yesterday..it was my little one's birthday and we were super busy.
I did call my ob/gyn's office. By yesterday everything changed to a very light tan (sorry for the TMI) and so he said that since I don't have any more cramping than I've had for the last 2 weeks (just dull, achey stuff...I remember that from my second pregnancy) and it got so light that he will see me right away if it picks up, but he thinks it's normal. So we just wait...which I hate, but i'm not as upset over it righ tnow.
Thank you so much for being so supportive, Ladies. I'm so on edge and you all are just wonderful!
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“Before you were conceived, I wanted you...
Before you were born, I loved you...
Before you were here an hour, I would die for you...
This is the miracle of love.” -Maureen Mansfield
(6), (3) and a due Dec. 25, 2011 and one up above and forever in our hearts.
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April 22nd, 2011, 07:18 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so glad that things have calmed down for you!
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April 22nd, 2011, 07:20 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: South Carolina
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I am glad the doctor was able to help some. When is your next appointment?
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April 22nd, 2011, 07:30 AM
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Veteran
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Whew! I'm so glad things are looking up now!
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April 25th, 2011, 10:01 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Unless anything changes I go in on May 16th. I have to say that I found it very odd that they did not want to track anything for me...I really should have switched offices but he knows my history and such.
I've POAS about 4 more times just to be sure it keeps coming up positive and darker each time. I've got to find a way to calm down over all of this. They said they will do an ultrasound that day...not much consolation when I have to wait all the way until then.
But, I'm thankful the spotting stopped and completely, totally thankful for the BFP...so I'm trying not to complain,.
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“Before you were conceived, I wanted you...
Before you were born, I loved you...
Before you were here an hour, I would die for you...
This is the miracle of love.” -Maureen Mansfield
(6), (3) and a due Dec. 25, 2011 and one up above and forever in our hearts.
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April 25th, 2011, 11:52 AM
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Lovin life and family
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Washington
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So glad the spotting has stopped and your lines are nice and dark. Sorry you have to wait so long for your first appointment and u/s but that will be nice to see your little one  . I hope the spotting stays away. You should think about joining us on PAL when you feel ready. Those ladies are a great support network for pregnancy after a loss.
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April 29th, 2011, 10:12 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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Thanks Jess...I will come look for that board.
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“Before you were conceived, I wanted you...
Before you were born, I loved you...
Before you were here an hour, I would die for you...
This is the miracle of love.” -Maureen Mansfield
(6), (3) and a due Dec. 25, 2011 and one up above and forever in our hearts.
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