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April 21st, 2011, 08:19 AM
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Hi ladies,

I'm Callie and I'm 25, (DH is Matt, 28) and I had my first miscarriage at 8 weeks on March 14.

Our doctor told us to wait to TTC until after AF shows again. (He said it was mainly for future preg timeline purposes.)

So, I'd like to join you guys here if that's alright. DH is very supportive and eager to listen/learn about my body but there's nothing like people who have been through it.

We've been quasi-careful (pull out method) and two days ago I thought AF had finally arrived but after the initial spotting for about an hour it was over. Still nothing.

Body just "recalibrating"? I feel kind of broken at this point, I just want to get back to normal.

Thanks for reading, I hope to talk to you all often!
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April 21st, 2011, 08:35 AM
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Im fairly new too. All the gals here are supportive and just plain great.
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April 21st, 2011, 08:40 AM
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Hi welcome

The girls here are all very supportive! We try to answer questions, show support, etc.

I'm sorry about your loss. It truly is one of the hardest things to go through. I love coming to this board cause I feel everyone knows what it's like to loose a baby and most people I know personally don't know that pain. It's a good comfort zone.
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April 21st, 2011, 09:03 AM
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Spotting and pull out method? I'd be careful because that can mean another pregnancy. Pull out method is not very preventing (so it could be a good thing ). But welcome! The girls here are very nice and you'll love it here!
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April 21st, 2011, 09:11 AM
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Welcome. This is a great group of ladies. I hope you get your stickie BFP quickly.
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April 21st, 2011, 09:30 AM
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Welcome! I am sorry for your loss and I hope you get AF soon so you can start again.
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April 21st, 2011, 09:32 AM
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Welcome! I am very sorry for your loss. The ladies here are amazing so jump right in. I hope you get your BFP quickly
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April 21st, 2011, 09:32 AM
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Hi and welcome! I am so sorry for your loss! I hope you get your bfp really soon!!
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April 21st, 2011, 10:52 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I totally get what you mean by feeling normal again.

Hope you get pregnant soon!
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April 21st, 2011, 12:09 PM
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Welcome! I'm so sorry for your loss. It is a rough road to travel, but I hope your body gets back in the groove soon.
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April 21st, 2011, 12:13 PM
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Welcome! I'm new too. I'm sorry you had to go through this. (((HUGS)))
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April 21st, 2011, 12:18 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss!! This is a wonderful board full of so much support and also a lot of laughs that I'm sure will help you feel better. It definitely helps to be able to come to a place where we are all going through the same thing. I hope your body gets back to normal so you can get your sticky BFP soon!
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April 21st, 2011, 12:20 PM
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Welcome its a great board! Sorry for your loss.
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April 21st, 2011, 12:37 PM
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Welcome, so sorry for your loss.
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April 21st, 2011, 05:45 PM
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Welcome...hope you stay is short and sweet. (Although you are free to stick around as long as you want!!)
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April 22nd, 2011, 05:03 AM
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I'm very sorry for your loss. The ladies here are awesome! I hope you're able to find some comfort here.
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April 22nd, 2011, 09:17 AM
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Welcome to the board! As all the other ladies have said in one way or another is that the ladies here are supportive in anything you have to share or even ask. I am sorry that you have gone through a loss and it is a hard road to travel but I do also hope that you get your BFP soon.
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April 22nd, 2011, 10:24 AM
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Välkommen till landet av galna människor. Jag skriver detta på svenska med Googles översättare, eftersom jag vet faktiskt inte någon svenska. Jag är säker på att det är fullt av fel som skulle göra en svensk skratt.

Jag valde att skriva på ett annat språk, eftersom jag blir uttråkad av att göra samma sak som alla andra. Innebär detta gör mig en hipster? Jag förstår inte riktigt har svaret och om du inte går igenom ansträngning att översätta detta, inte heller kommer du.

Jag tycker både avacados och eggrolls men jag har aldrig haft dem tillsammans.
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April 22nd, 2011, 12:32 PM
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Välkommen till landet av galna människor. Jag skriver detta på svenska med Googles översättare, eftersom jag vet faktiskt inte någon svenska. Jag är säker på att det är fullt av fel som skulle göra en svensk skratt.

Jag valde att skriva på ett annat språk, eftersom jag blir uttråkad av att göra samma sak som alla andra. Innebär detta gör mig en hipster? Jag förstår inte riktigt har svaret och om du inte går igenom ansträngning att översätta detta, inte heller kommer du.

Jag tycker både avacados och eggrolls men jag har aldrig haft dem tillsammans.
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Did you know that I am swedish? I may be the only swede on this board.
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April 22nd, 2011, 12:42 PM
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"Välkommen till landet av galna människor. Jag skriver detta på svenska med Googles översättare, eftersom jag vet faktiskt inte någon svenska. Jag är säker på att det är fullt av fel som skulle göra en svensk skratt.

Jag valde att skriva på ett annat språk, eftersom jag blir uttråkad av att göra samma sak som alla andra. Innebär detta gör mig en hipster? Jag förstår inte riktigt har svaret och om du inte går igenom ansträngning att översätta detta, inte heller kommer du.

Jag tycker både avacados och eggrolls men jag har aldrig haft dem tillsammans. "

Here is the English version (my translation) of what Courtney posted:
Welcome to the land of crazy people. I am writing this with the help of Google's language translator, as I do not know the swedish language. I am completely sure there are lot of errors that a swede would laugh at.
I chose to write in another language as I get bored doing the same thing that everyone else is doing. Does that mean I am a hipster? I don't quite understand the answer and if you do not take the extra effort to translate this you wont understand this either.

I like both avocados and eggrolls but have never had them together.
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