Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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April 22nd, 2011, 04:20 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 4,534
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So, I have been debating & debating, but I think I have decided that the risks of WTTC are too many & I cannot risk the sadness of not becoming a mommy again - I will be TTC.
I have had 11 losses, 8 of them since I had my DD 13 years ago on 4/28, and my last loss was due to CI - my beloved precious son Daniel.
Today my cycle began so I guess I'll be taking an OPK in about 10 days
I am very excited, but very nervous, but hope to make some new "friends" here as I have on all the loss boards.
Praying for quick BFPs for all of you!!!!
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April 22nd, 2011, 04:23 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 4,361
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I am glad that you are able to ttc again. It's a hard decision to make after so many losses. As you know, I feel your pain!
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Erica, Mom to Peter. TTC#2 after 13 losses
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April 22nd, 2011, 04:26 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Bristow Virginia
Posts: 1,560
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Welcome to the board. I hope you stay is short and that you get your BFP quickly. I am sorry about your losses.
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April 22nd, 2011, 04:33 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 13,280
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Hi Tanya.  We were in the same DDC. I'm so sorry for your losses, especially for your precious Daniel. The ladies here are amazing! I hope you're able to find some comfort here as you start on this rollercoaster journey again.
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April 22nd, 2011, 04:55 PM
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*~Mom to Faith Marie~*
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Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: Massachusetts
Posts: 1,696
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Welcome! I am so sorry you have had to go through so many losses. You are very strong to be able to try again, I hope you get a sticky BFP soon!
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April 22nd, 2011, 04:59 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Welcome to the board. I am glad your are TTC again and I hope you get your sticky BFP very quickly.
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April 22nd, 2011, 07:19 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 8,046
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Hello
I am Anna. I am new here also. I have DD Bella who is 17 months and had my first loss about 2 weeks ago.
This is a great board and I have found a lot of support. We are waiting this month out and then will start trying again my next cycle and use Clomid.
I hope for you to have a sticky bean very soon.
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April 22nd, 2011, 07:23 PM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Clarence, Pa
Posts: 4,828
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Welcome to the board Tanya. I am sorry you had to go through so many losses. I hope you can fine surport in this room as you start ttc again. We are always here to listen.
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April 22nd, 2011, 09:04 PM
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POAS Queen
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 3,947
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Welcome, Tanya! I'm very sorry about all your losses. I'm glad you've had some time to reflect and that you and your husband were able to reach a decision together. Look forward to getting to know you!
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.

^^ Click graphic for chart ^^

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April 23rd, 2011, 01:40 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 7,934
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Welcome! I am so sorry about your losses. I hope you get a bfp real soon!
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April 24th, 2011, 10:18 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Montreal, QC
Posts: 4,836
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We've decided to start TTC as soon as AF shows up too. It was a really hard decision but I dont wanna wait it out and its gonna end the same way. We NEED to at least try and know it might be possible, ya know? *hugs*
We can do this!
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