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April 25th, 2011, 10:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Okay ladies I have a challenge! Ready for it? Post here one at a time with information that you wish you would have known before you had a loss. It can be about your cycle, about medicine, phyically, mentally however you go with it. This will give us lots of information that will help each other as well. You can post more than once but only post one thing at a time 
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April 25th, 2011, 10:29 AM
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I wish I would have known how badly it can affect your cycle
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April 25th, 2011, 11:07 AM
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I wish I would have known how hard the BFN's each month would be.
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April 25th, 2011, 11:07 AM
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It's me
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I don't think anything could have been done to stop my loss, so I don't know that having a particular knowledge set would have had any meaning to me. Also, I don't empathize well with things I haven't experienced, so I probably would have blown off anyone trying to give me information.
I am, however, appreciative of all of the information I have gotten here AFTER my loss. It was very interesting and I have learned a lot more about the female body than I ever did before. It's quite fascinating.
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April 25th, 2011, 11:35 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I wish I would have known about Baby Asprin
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April 25th, 2011, 12:01 PM
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I wish I would have known how hard a natural miscarriage would be. It would have been much easier on me emotionally to have a D&C.
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April 25th, 2011, 01:17 PM
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I wish I would have known how much of a toll it can take on a relationship
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April 25th, 2011, 04:31 PM
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I wish I would have known that a baby aspirin and a Clomid pill may have prevented some of my losses.
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April 25th, 2011, 04:43 PM
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How does baby asprin help prevent losses?
I wish I had known how to prevent it (I know there probably wasn't a way, but I still wish I knew)
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April 25th, 2011, 05:12 PM
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I wish that it would have never happened.... 
I would rather have never gotten pregnant that to have lost the baby.
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April 25th, 2011, 05:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I wish I knew how insensitive and stupid people could be with their comments so I would have been prepared with the snarky comments I come equipped standard with now.
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April 25th, 2011, 05:36 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by -Anna-
I wish that it would have never happened....
I would rather have never gotten pregnant that to have lost the baby. |
same here
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April 25th, 2011, 06:13 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by -Anna-
I wish that it would have never happened....
I would rather have never gotten pregnant that to have lost the baby. |
Same here.
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April 25th, 2011, 11:56 PM
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Super Mommy
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I also wish that I would have known how it would screw with me wanting a baby in the future. Now I still want one...but don't want to go through that pain AGAIN. I'm definintely second guessing myself...and I don't like that at all.
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April 26th, 2011, 12:10 PM
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I wish I would have known that I had endo.
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April 26th, 2011, 01:06 PM
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It's me
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Brooke16
How does baby asprin help prevent losses?
I wish I had known how to prevent it (I know there probably wasn't a way, but I still wish I knew)
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It prevents clotting. I don't remember why clotting is bad.
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April 26th, 2011, 02:35 PM
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I wish I would have known to tell the doctor's office to have something other than Parents magazine in their waiting room. Seriously, how does an OB office do something so insensitive? They of all people should know that not everything turns out roses when it comes to pregnancy.
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April 27th, 2011, 06:31 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nikki515
I wish I would have known how hard a natural miscarriage would be. It would have been much easier on me emotionally to have a D&C.
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same here
i wish i didnt have to have a natural miscarriage and a d&c the next day. I was more scared of the d&c and i should have been more scared of the NM.
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April 27th, 2011, 06:44 AM
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Basing this on my earlier losses- I wish I had known how people would react and that a lot of people just don't understand the toll of a miscarriage.
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April 27th, 2011, 08:03 AM
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I wish I would have known how horrible my BIL's wife would be to me after my loss.
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