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April 26th, 2011, 06:42 AM
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Here is my story of my loss. http://www.justmommies.com/forums/f1...age-story.html

I was in the November DDC.

I have a follow up to my D&C in two weeks and will see where to go from there. This was my first pregnancy so not sure what comes next. I assume I will need to wait 3 cycles or so before starting to try again.

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April 26th, 2011, 08:52 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. But welcome to TTCAL! The ladies here are amazing and understanding and so supportive.

Different doctors say different things about how long to wait after a m/c before you start trying again. But if your body is not ready to get pregnant again, it won't, so mostly it boils down to when YOU feel ready to try again.
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April 26th, 2011, 09:03 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss! It's a really tough thing to go through. This is a great board and I hope you'll find the same support as I have on here. I also agree with Nikki about when to try again. Unless your doctor has given you a medical reason to wait, and you feel emotionally ready, I think the choice is really yours.
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April 26th, 2011, 09:15 AM
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I am so sorry for you loss. The ladies here are very helpful and supportive.

As far as waiting that is up to. With my first d&c we had to wait because I had complications. With the last d&c which was in March we are waiting until we get some blood test done since this was our third loss.
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April 26th, 2011, 09:36 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss, I was in the November DDC also...unfortunately there are quite a few of us
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April 26th, 2011, 09:47 AM
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We invite you wih open arms.... Sorry for your loss... I was about 10 weeks when I naturally miscarried it... It was an awful experience... After loss make sure that your hcg/beta level goes back to zero this varies on different people...
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April 26th, 2011, 10:06 AM
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So sorry for your loss. This is a great board, I have learned so much and it has really helped in trying again.
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April 26th, 2011, 11:25 AM
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I am so very sorry for your loss It's always hard to welcome new ladies here because of the reason, but we welcome you with open arms. The ladies here are amazing and are full of helpful information. As far as waiting your body will not get pregnant unless it is ready. I think the waiting is mostly until you are emotionally ready to try again. Please know that we are here for you.
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April 26th, 2011, 11:30 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss, I was in the November DDC also...unfortunately there are quite a few of us
I know...so sad. I'm so sorry for your loss also!

Thanks, everybody! I really appreciate the warm welcome.
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April 26th, 2011, 12:07 PM
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Welcome! I am so sorry for your loss!!
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April 26th, 2011, 02:16 PM
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Welcome and so sorry for your loss.
As far as waiting there is no right or wrong answer from what I have seen.
The last 2 times I started TTC before I even got A/F... never got pregnant that quick but cant say I never tried
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April 26th, 2011, 02:39 PM
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Hi!

I was in the October DDC so I feel your pain on the recent loss. It's just not fair.

But welcome here. I'm also new but everyone has been super nice. See you around!
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April 26th, 2011, 03:59 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss *hugs*
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