[lindsey2000k]

Ok ladies I dont know why but it is really bothering me that I have no clue how many DPO I am supposed to be.
My opks were going lighter and darker and then I just gave up thinking I was not going to O and started waiting on A/F
I was also temping and FF moved my crosshairs 4 times and now its telling me I did not even O at all (well we know thats not true)

I hope its not hurting anyone that I am asking pregnancy questions here I just dont know any other boards that are as knowledgeable as you ladies are.

[.:Shortcake:.]

Your chart confuses the crap outa me I think that because of your loss your cycle is all out of whack. Sorry I can't be more helpful.

[Twoboysmaybemore]

I say that you Oed on CD30 making your BFP on 12 dpo and today you would be 18dpo. I think it is pretty clearly so. Hang in there!

[lindsey2000k]

Originally Posted by Twoboysmaybemore

I say that you Oed on CD30 making your BFP on 12 dpo and today you would be 18dpo. I think it is pretty clearly so. Hang in there!

Is a HCG of 12 low for 12DPO?

I got my BFP 11DPO with my daughter and I think my HCG was 80

Last time I got my BFP 9dpo and my HCG was 82 at 12dpo.

Or does any of that really matter?
I was just trying to figure out my EDD and how many weeks & days I might be but with this screwy chart I have no clue.

Originally Posted by .:Shortcake:.

Your chart confuses the crap outa me I think that because of your loss your cycle is all out of whack. Sorry I can't be more helpful.

I think its all screwed up too. Part of me wishes I would have waited for A/F but then I can't think that way because I would not have what i have now.

[Twoboysmaybemore]

It is on the low side but my beta on 12 dpo was only 14 (at 4pm) and he is napping upstairs! The numbers have to start somewhere. I know it is nerve wracking but you are indeed pregnant! Have you had another beta done?

[lindsey2000k]

Originally Posted by Twoboysmaybemore

It is on the low side but my beta on 12 dpo was only 14 (at 4pm) and he is napping upstairs! The numbers have to start somewhere. I know it is nerve wracking but you are indeed pregnant! Have you had another beta done?

Yes I had another one this morning.

[momof6lopez]

Your chart is wacky to say the least. I would guess cd27 or cd30. The three days at this point is not going to make a huge difference in the end. My beta with this pregnancy on 13dpo was only a 28. It more than tripeled in 48hrs the next draw at 101 for 15dpo. (it kept this pattern until I was over 2500, then went to 40hrs doubeling time until I was over 10,000) To me it was very low too, but here Iam, almost 15wks with a baby who has measured right on for my O date on all 8 u/s's. (even a couple days ahead) As long as your doubling every 48hrs until you reach the 1,000's....all would be good. Praying for a great beta today for you!

[lindsey2000k]

I know everyone says its the number that matters its what it does.
But its hard to not freak out.

[momof6lopez]

Originally Posted by lindsey2000k

I know everyone says its the number that matters its what it does.
But its hard to not freak out.

To be honest, I would freak too, and I did with this pregnancy too. I even spotted and cramped until I was 6.5wks along. The spotting started on 12dpo and when I got the first beta back being so low, I just assumed 100% it was over. I then spotted 5 days later, than another 4 or so days later...pink spotting with cramps. I know they say every pregnancy is different, but I never believed in a million years that I could be a spotter and have lower hcg, and still be 15wks pg with a healthy baby (knowing my hcg was doubeling really good, made me a slight more confident though).....you just never know. Hang in there, we feel your pain..

[lindsey2000k]

Originally Posted by momof5lopez

To be honest, I would freak too, and I did with this pregnancy too. I even spotted and cramped until I was 6.5wks along. The spotting started on 12dpo and when I got the first beta back being so low, I just assumed 100% it was over. I then spotted 5 days later, than another 4 or so days later...pink spotting with cramps. I know they say every pregnancy is different, but I never believed in a million years that I could be a spotter and have lower hcg, and still be 15wks pg with a healthy baby (knowing my hcg was doubeling really good, made me a slight more confident though).....you just never know. Hang in there, we feel your pain..

Yeah and with my progest being so low I was/am panicing.

[Twoboysmaybemore]

Let me add my other betas too.
12 dpo - 14 (afternoon draw)
14dpo - 24.5 (morning draw)
16dpo - 51.7 (morning)
18dpo- 147 (morning)

I know that after losses it is hard to stay positive and think that things will work out. I will pray for you.