Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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My body is so broken it doesn't even realize that there is no baby inside me. It doesnt even know that there is an empty sac sitting in my uterus  my heart is broken
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Super big massive hugs! I am so so sorry your having to go through this again It's just not fair. Is your doctor going to run any tests?
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Yah they are referring me to the specialist so I should hear soothing in the next few weeks  the doctor in the er was super nice but I could tell he didn't want to just say it out loud! Hopefully we can get some answers since he said that it is probably an egg problem
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2008
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OMG!! Megan, no...
I'm beyond sorry, I dont know what to say...I am crying with you...
If you need to talk, I'm right there for you, I know what you are going through to an extent, and we can cry together...thinking of you...
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Thanks tonya it is so great to have all you ladies to talk too.
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Wookie's Girl
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Texas
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Not another one. I am so sorry. Things have not really been good around here lately.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: illinois
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Im so sorry for your loss, again...........its just not right. A blighted ovum is a horrible term, it robs you of mourning the loss of your baby, but just remember that there was a baby and although its not visible to the dr's, it was there just the same. Your body's not broken honey, just the opposite.....it was trying to hold onto your pregnancy, doing what its made to do.
They say that its very rare to experience two blighted ovums in a lifetime. There are all kinds of loss's obviously, but blighted ovums are more rare. I have over 6 loss's in my lifetime, one of them a blighted ovum that went to 14wks, I know the pain, and just wanted to say Im sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry for your loss!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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I'm so sorry! Big Hugs!!!!!
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Clarence, Pa
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I am so sorry for you loss. Hugs.
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*~Mom to Faith Marie~*
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Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: Massachusetts
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I am so very sorry
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Maine
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I am so sorry for your loss! 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: New Jersey
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NO, NO, NO! This is just not fair! I'm so so so so sorry Megan.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2010
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I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Quote:
Originally Posted by momof5lopez
Im so sorry for your loss, again...........its just not right. A blighted ovum is a horrible term, it robs you of mourning the loss of your baby, but just remember that there was a baby and although its not visible to the dr's, it was there just the same. Your body's not broken honey, just the opposite.....it was trying to hold onto your pregnancy, doing what its made to do.
They say that its very rare to experience two blighted ovums in a lifetime. There are all kinds of loss's obviously, but blighted ovums are more rare. I have over 6 loss's in my lifetime, one of them a blighted ovum that went to 14wks, I know the pain, and just wanted to say Im sorry for your loss.
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I think that is what hurt the most, when the doctor kept saying to me it isn't a miscarriage there was never a baby. Maybe there wasn't a baby in my body, but there was a baby in my heart and in my mind. There was a little brother or sister for my daughter, that was our baby
It sucks to that DH is halfway around the world working in Australia. I can't call him and with the time change I only get to talk to him once a day. It was so hard to have to tell him in text that I had lost our baby I just feel like such a failure. All I want is another baby and to have your dreams shattered like this just makes me feel like I am broken into little pieces.
Thank you for all the support and kind words, it means the world to me to have all you ladies who understand and can relate to what I am going through
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
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i'm so sorry that you have to go thru this again. we are here for you.
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