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May 6th, 2011, 05:38 AM
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So, pathology report came back yesterday. I was pregnant with a baby girl. It was a girl. She had Turners Syndrome. I'm 37 and decided to not have genetic testing done. I think that if I can get pregnant again that I will have testing done so that I can have a little more peace. I've spent the last 5 weeks waiting for this information, and beat myself up every day for all the possible things I did to 'make' this happen. The 'girl logic' brain sure is powerful in taking ownership/responsibility for things it has no control over. Inherently I know it's not my fault, and the pathology report helps me cope a bit.
Now I just need AF to reappear so I can feel some closure to this whole ordeal.
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May 6th, 2011, 05:42 AM
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. I'm glad the testing has given you more peace and help you know there was nothing you did wrong. Now come on AF, show your face!
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May 6th, 2011, 05:51 AM
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl! I hope AF shows soon.
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May 6th, 2011, 05:53 AM
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I am so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. I'm glad the pathology is giving you so comfort and you know can grieve your daughter. I know with me, naming my son really helped so maybe that might be something you would like to do as well. *HUGS*
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May 6th, 2011, 06:20 AM
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Naming my baby helped me cope with the loss as well. I am so sorry for the loss of your little girl.
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May 6th, 2011, 06:31 AM
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl!

The pathology report helped me with my loss as well. I at least was able to confirm what I was facing.

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So sorry. I am glad you have some peace from the report. I hope AF shows soon.
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May 6th, 2011, 06:55 AM
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I am sorry for the loss of your baby girl. I am happy the report was able to give you some peace.
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May 6th, 2011, 06:58 AM
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I am so so so sorry for your loss!!!
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May 6th, 2011, 08:58 AM
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your little girl
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May 6th, 2011, 11:14 AM
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I am so truly sorry for your loss.
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