Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2010
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Hi i havent posted here before but Im hoping I can get some advice here.
Im 4 weeks pregnant. I got pregnant on my first cycle of clomid and I was so excited but nervous the whole time. I havent even been in to see a dr. yet for the pregnancy.
On friday night I had a little light tan spotting. Saturday it continued all day with low back cramps and I got a slight fever of 99.5 I called the Dr. on call where I was going for TTC and she said to just rest and wait until monday to call the office if things were the same. Ive been laying down since then. The cramps are gone, but the spotting is a dark brown now. I checked in the bathroom and my cervix is low and open.
So my question is what should I do. Is there anything that would help at this point or is the loss inevitable? I thought if I was really going to miscarry I would have had real bleeding by now? I dont want to waste money to go to the ER though if there is nothing to be done. And on the other hand I dont want to stay on this couch all day if thats not gonna help and is only slowing down the process.
I dont know, Im just confused and i have no idea what to expect or what I should do.
Thanks for any help.
Last edited by rmarie9509; May 8th, 2011 at 12:34 PM.
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Wookie's Girl
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That's how my bleeding was with my loss. Then again, it may not be a loss. I would wait until your doctor confirms it.
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I would call your doctor. Also, please update the title of your post to include pregnancy.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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I would call the doctor first thing tomorrow. If the bleeding gets heavier then I would go to the ER.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2008
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m/c don't always start with real bleeding, but I would keep in contact with your doc and take it easy. I've always been told that if it is going to happen, it is going to happen . . . hope everything turns out okay.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
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It could be many different things. Your progesterone could be low, your cervix can be irritated or you could have unexplainable spotting. Please go to the doctor. Update us when you can.
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Mega Super Mommy
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I rested all day today nothing really changed Ill call the drs office first thing in the morning hopefully I can get in.
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Platinum Supermommy
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I hope you can get in first thing tomorrow.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
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Good luck! I hope it's nothing!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
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Good luck...keep us posted.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Good luck. Please KUP!
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I hope you get in to see the Dr. and all goes well!
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Mega Super Mommy
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I hope all goes well and that the spotting might have been something else that irritated your cervix. KUP.
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Lovin life and family
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I hope it was nothing and everything is ok.
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Platinum Supermommy
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I hope you were able to get in and see the doctor and everything is okay. 
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Wookie's Girl
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Any updates?
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She updated in TTC#1Grads...unfortunately, her beta came back at 3 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
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Oh no! How heartbreaking!
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Wookie's Girl
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Join Date: May 2009
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That sucks. Poor thing.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2010
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sorry I hadnt made it back here to check in. I just officially introduced myself and updated. Thank you so much for your support I look forward to getting to know you and ttc with you
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