very slim chances this cylce...

KeepingFaith · #1 May 24th, 2011, 07:33 PM

I got a very clear positive OPK Saturday morning. BD'd that night, but that's all. I still had positives up until last night. I feel like o'd mid day yesterday...I had very strange cramping. DH did not want to BD last night because "I was making it a job". I got really angry and said something really mean...I told him "well you are failing at your job"... I apologized right away...it just came out. But, I know if I don't get a BFP I will be resentful....Ugh. Just one of the days...I feel so angry about TTC this month...and to top it off, tonight DD asked me if I was gonna have a baby in my tummy, and DH was sitting right there and he just looked at me and answered "nope".

thanks for listening ladies

missy123 · #2 May 24th, 2011, 07:40 PM

Your comment to him made me giggle. I felt the same way at times but never had the guts to say it

Our last cycle we only BD'd the day before and day of o so you never know. Don't count yourself out yet!! xoxoxoxox

fromustobaby · #3 May 24th, 2011, 07:48 PM

FWIW, when I got pregnant this time, we only BD on the night of my +OPK...that's it...

I cant pressure DH at all, or he gets so nervous that it is not good at all...so I have to be gentle

Libby22 · #4 May 24th, 2011, 09:50 PM

Im trying for another girl so didnt do it on pos opk test, never know we both could get pos preggie tests

pepper73 · #5 May 25th, 2011, 03:21 AM

What you said to your DH is what we all think sometimes. I totally get your frustration and can totally understand why you would feel resentment. You're definitely not out for this month since you DTD right around O time and I've got my fingers crossed for you. I hope your DH apologized for the way he answered your DD. I'm sure that stung bad.

.:Shortcake:. · #6 May 25th, 2011, 03:29 AM

I understand your frustrations. It only takes once though

I hope you get a surprise BFP at the end of this cycle!

KeepingFaith · #7 May 25th, 2011, 05:28 AM

Thanks Ladies...I'm still holding out a little hope, and I did use pre-seed so maybe it helped the little swimmers survive longer. We will just have to wait and see.