Cautiously joining you ladies

Jessido · #1 June 7th, 2011, 12:22 PM

Hi ladies, my name is Jessica and I wanted to introduce myself.

My husband and I are just now TTC after our loss on February 16th 2011. I was a member of the July DDC until we lost our son Liam at 18 weeks due to Incompetent Cervix. I used to be really active on JM but this is my first or second time back since it all happened.

Currently I am on CD 29 and awaiting a BFP. It's only 9 days dpo (late ovulation) but I already got a bfn this morning

Have you guys ever got a BFM after testing negative 9dpo?

-Jess

.:Shortcake:. · #2 June 7th, 2011, 01:57 PM

Hi Jessica! Welcome to TTCAL. I've very sorry for the loss of your son Liam. The ladies her are very supportive and amazing. Don't count yourself out until the witch arrives. I've gotten BFP even after AF was supposed to arrive and lots of ladies don't get them until CD 12-13. Your still really early. I have everything crossed for you

Jessido · #3 June 7th, 2011, 02:21 PM

Thank you Katie!

I'm still holding out hope too. Last time I got my BFP it was a surprise and I didnt test until 3 days after my missed af and it was still faint. Thanks for welcoming me!

LindseyE117 · #4 June 7th, 2011, 02:29 PM

I am so extremely sorry for your loss. They can be heartbreaking and devastating. I did not get my last BFP until 14 DPO and all tests before that were negative. So keep your head up and know that the girls on here will be good to you.

I am so extremely sorry for your loss. They can be heartbreaking and devastating. I did not get my last BFP until 14 DPO and all tests before that were negative. So keep your head up and know that the girls on here will be good to you.

Jessido · #5 June 7th, 2011, 02:48 PM

Thank you Lindsey, devastating is 100% correct. I hope that a rainbow baby will start to bring some joy back into our days.

.:Shortcake:. · #6 June 7th, 2011, 05:16 PM

Jump right into posting we'd love to get to know you better

outnumberedX3 · #7 June 7th, 2011, 07:13 PM

I'm SO sorry for the loss of your lil one

. I hope that your stay here is short and sweet!!

pepper73 · #8 June 8th, 2011, 04:11 AM

I am so sorry for your loss! Going through a loss is so difficult but I have found that being a member of this board has brought me so much comfort and support. I hope that you find that to be true for you too. I hope that you get your BFP and sticky bean! Keep us posted on your testing!

Jessido · #9 June 8th, 2011, 07:17 AM

Thanks! I will for sure update on the testing. I have a box of tests in the bathroom calling my name but I'm trying to wait til CD33 to either test or get af. Ugh!