Joining you ladies!!

melissalaw · #1 June 8th, 2011, 01:50 PM

Hi guys. My name is Melissa and I recently suffered a pregancy loss. I went to the doctor last Friday for a check up and the doctor could not find a heartbeat. So the doctor did an ultrasound and confirmed that the baby did not have a heartbeat. I went in on Monday for a D & C and am now trying to recover from the loss. I am already blessed with one child but this loss has been very difficult. I know with time it will get better. What I find the hardest is that at 7 1/2 weeks the baby had a heartbeat and then on the checkup at 11 weeks it did not have a heartbeat.

While I'm not yet TTC, I wanted to go ahead and get to know you wonderful ladies. My doctor said that after 2 regular cycles we could start trying again which is what we plan on doing. I'm looking foward to getting know you ladies and here to hoping we all get BFP soon!!

lindsey2000k · #2 June 8th, 2011, 02:00 PM

So sorry for your loss.
I had a loss where we had a heart beat at 6 weeks and 10 weeks found the baby had passed away.... That was my hardest one mentally to deal with.

Welcome to TTCAL and I hope these next 2 cycles pass quick.

I am trying to get over a recent ectopic and have to wait a cycle then I can TTC again after a HSC.

EJsMommy · #3 June 8th, 2011, 04:04 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome! The ladies here are really supportive. I suffered a loss in the second trimester and had to deliver the baby naturally. I got pills to start the labor (I will not be more descriptive than this). I am eager to get to know you as well.

JessP · #4 June 8th, 2011, 04:05 PM

Welcome to the group. Sorry you are joining

. I hope that when you are able to start TTCAL you will get a BFP quickly and have a healthy and happy pregnancy.

outnumberedX3 · #5 June 8th, 2011, 08:13 PM

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss

. I wish you much luck when you start TTC again!!

bassetmomma · #6 June 8th, 2011, 08:22 PM

Hey. I think we were in the same DDC. I lost at Easter at a little over 5 weeks. So sorry for your loss.

StaceygirlPa · #7 June 9th, 2011, 10:33 AM

Sorry for you loss. My last loss we heard the heartbeat then went back and found out the baby passed. I think once you hear a heartbeat it makes the loss harder.