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June 11th, 2011, 05:12 AM
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I'm pretty sure I'm ovulating right now. DH is not in the mood.
Seriously?!?!?
I can't make him. It is breaking my heart. I just can't believe it.
I turn 40 in one week. It's not as though a magical switch is going to flip between today and one month from now for my fertility, but I really really wanted to have a good chance this month!!! Ugh!!!!
It's also not like we can do the deed any time we want to with two kids, one being a very poor sleeper and prone to wake up at any time of the night.
I'm just so frustrated I could scream!
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June 11th, 2011, 05:27 AM
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Ugh! I'm so sorry DH is being a butthead! They just don't get it sometimes. I hope that he comes around and realizes how important this is to you.
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June 11th, 2011, 02:22 PM
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I'm sorry your DH is being a pain. Hopefully he will get in the mood soon. I might just jump my husband and make him get in the mood.
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June 11th, 2011, 02:56 PM
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Just jump him hahaha be like I want you now try to make him in the mood?
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June 11th, 2011, 03:20 PM
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Seduce him Always works for me!
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June 11th, 2011, 06:55 PM
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Sorry he's being dumb!! We've had months like that too, and it is SO frustrating! I hope he changes his mind, and you get some action!
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June 11th, 2011, 11:05 PM
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totally seduce him! haha there are some things guys cant resist...
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June 12th, 2011, 04:27 AM
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Ugh! That stinks! I had that happen to me a couple of months ago too and I totally understand your frustration. Hopefully seduction works and it will take the pressure off of him if he thinks it is just for fun.
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June 12th, 2011, 05:28 AM
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Thanks ladies. The "not in the mood" IS following many attempts at seduction over several days, actually. Rejection is hard enough to handle, but it is 1000 times more upsetting for me right now. it is not a new problem for us, and it's particularly heart breaking when ttc. *sigh*
On to next month, as my cm has now completely changed. Not to be overly dramatic or tmi, but my body has shifted all wateriness to my eyeballs because I can't stop the tears.

Maybe I'll try to talk him into DHEA, as I've heard that can help libido and sperm quality too?
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