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June 14th, 2011, 07:02 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hi, I have posted here before but it's been a long time. I have a very close friend who has had 2 losses.
I talked to my friend today and she is going in tomorrow... to find out whether she has an ectopic or a possibly viable pregnancy. I just wanted to find a caring group of people who could join me in sending some positive thoughts or heavy duty prayers her way! I am on edge waiting to hear tomorrow after her appt. I care more about this than anything for myself. She is such a good person and like you, deserves her chance!!
Please join me in t&p if you can and I will send some your way too!
Amanda
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June 14th, 2011, 07:07 PM
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Veteran
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I will pray for her. I have a close friend who had two ectopics before her son was born. I hope the third time is a charm for your friend as well!
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June 14th, 2011, 07:25 PM
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Sending prayers to your friend!!
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June 14th, 2011, 09:05 PM
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praying for our rainbow
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Prayers for your friend! keep us updated
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June 15th, 2011, 03:23 AM
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Sending prayers to your friend!
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June 15th, 2011, 04:46 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sending thoughts & prayers her way! I hope she gets good news today. She is very lucky to have a friend like you! 
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June 15th, 2011, 05:42 AM
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Sending good thoughts and Prayers to your friend. I hope she gets good news on her appointment. She is really fortunate to have a friend like you!
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June 15th, 2011, 05:46 AM
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I'm praying for your friend. I hope she gets good news at her appointment. Update when you know more.
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June 15th, 2011, 01:12 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Update!!! This AM they found her HCG levels were still going up so they scheduled her for a u/s. I just spoke to her and she was in the waiting area. They just called her back.
Waiting...
She was so exhausted that she had to go home between appts. to sleep- I hope that is a good healthy sign and not one that could represent anything bad. If it is a good result though she is still going to need the t&p to keep it sticky and healthy. I will let you know and THANKS!!!
UPDATE 2: It does not look good. The HCG levels were not high enough for what they would expect. They could not tell if it was a tubal (I don't know how they can tell/not tell) but the dr. said based on the blood level it looked like it would "most likely" not end in a viable pregnancy.
My poor friend. She said if she was offered a multimillion dollar lottery winning she would give it up just to have one healthy baby. I hate for her to go through this again. How she must feel going through this for a 3rd time. It's so sad and I know she feels helpless!
Thank you for the t&p! I don't think there is any solution but I just want her to be happy.
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Last edited by Hugo&Sergiosmom; June 15th, 2011 at 02:16 PM.
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June 15th, 2011, 04:06 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 for your friend and for you! I am so sorry she is going through such a heartbreaking time...again! I was really hoping for better news!
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June 15th, 2011, 04:12 PM
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praying for our rainbow
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Awww hun, i was so hoping for good news! She will cont to be in my thoughts and prayers!
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June 15th, 2011, 05:59 PM
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THANK YOU so much!!!
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June 16th, 2011, 12:50 AM
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Sounds like my 3rd pregnancy. My HCG was slow to rise and kinda just everywhere so they assumed ectopic. But it was too early to see on a ultra sound.
I'm sorry for your friend. It's for sure so hard to go through.
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June 16th, 2011, 07:07 AM
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I am so sorry for your friends loss.  Will she come on JM? We will help give her extra support as well.
You are a really good person.
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June 16th, 2011, 08:38 AM
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I agree with Missy, if your friend is able, she should stop by one (or more) of the boards here. I fell in love with JM a long time ago -- maybe she can, too? I'm so sorry to hear about the bad news
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
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Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
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