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June 16th, 2011, 05:51 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
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Hi ladies
Just as things were looking good the spotting started again. My symptoms have been getting worse which should be a good sign but I don't know anymore.
We had an u/s on Monday and could only see an empty sac, I keep trying to tell myself that the machine is old and doesn't do a very good job but I am having a hard time keeping my spirits up.
I will see the doctor tomorrow and see what he has to say. I had my betas tested at 6w3d and they were 23,000 which the doc says is ok but I just don't know.
Sorry for being so down I just really have no one else to talk to. I am trying to be positive for DH and my family but I just needed to get it out.
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June 16th, 2011, 06:12 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Tennessee
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I will be praying that you get good news at your doctor's appointment tomorrow. I really hope that you are not back here. Just try to think positive thoughts and hopefully you will get good news tomorrow. Let us know how it goes.
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June 16th, 2011, 06:53 AM
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Wookie's Girl
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Location: Texas
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I hope you are not coming back here! Keep your head up girl! Plus, I will be praying for you!
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June 16th, 2011, 06:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: new jersey
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Hope everything works out!! We will be thinking of you and will be here when you need us!
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June 16th, 2011, 07:04 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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June 16th, 2011, 07:54 AM
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***Staying Positive***
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Location: Coushatta, La
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I am so sorry to hear your dealing with this. I hope things get better soon and you see a hb next time!!
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June 16th, 2011, 08:23 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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OH no Terri. Crossing everything that when you go it all looks good. Try to stay as positive as you can. ((HUGS))
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June 16th, 2011, 08:29 AM
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POAS Queen
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It's so hard to stay positive when things look down. I think that's why this group is so important, because it's easier to stay positive for someone else sometimes, so when you're down, you know you have somewhere to go where everyone is rooting for you and cheering you on. Hoping your appointment tomorrow kicks ***!
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.

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June 16th, 2011, 08:45 AM
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Lovin life and family
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Washington
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Sending good thoughts for your appointment tomorrow. Sorry you are spotting. It isn't always a sure sign that something is wrong. 4 of my 5 pregnancies have had spotting. Only 2 ended and spotting wasn't the reason. How far along were you when you had the u/s? That can make a huge difference too. I just saw a sac at about 5ish weeks with my first and they thought we would lose her. She is 6 now. Big Big hugs. We are here either way it goes.
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June 16th, 2011, 09:31 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I hope the spotting stops and you have a good appt. tomorrow. Sending you lots of hugs.
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June 16th, 2011, 09:38 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies! I have an appointment tomorrow. I am a little nervous because the doctor called Monday afternoon to tell me the doctor still wanted to see me tomorrow even though I had just seen him earlier in the morning for the spotting.
I had my betas drawn last Friday and again on Monday. I only got the results for the test on Monday - 23,000. My u/s was at 6w3d but our u/s machine is extremely old and the pictures are so blurry that the tech said it happens all the time that they don't see anything that early.
I will update after my appointment tomorrow.
Thanks for the encouragement. I knew you would all understand.
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June 16th, 2011, 11:45 AM
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All crossables crossed for you tomorrow!
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June 16th, 2011, 11:57 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Good luck! I really hope things turn out to be fine, and that you carry this bean to term!
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June 16th, 2011, 12:08 PM
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Praying 4 a miracle
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I don't know you but still I wanted to wish you luck for tomorrow
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June 16th, 2011, 12:08 PM
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praying for our rainbow
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You are in my prayers! Hopefully you see a healthy baby and nice heartbeat!
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June 16th, 2011, 12:35 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks everyone.
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June 16th, 2011, 12:54 PM
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High IQ~ No common sense
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Central Illinois
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Will be thinking of you Terri. Maybe you can get them to get you into somewhere with a better machine, if it's not to terribly expensive. Although if you see that little bean in there you don't care what it would cost
Keeping everything crossed for you!
Michelle T.
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June 16th, 2011, 08:22 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2011
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Good luck tomorrow! Sending tons of good vibes your way!
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June 16th, 2011, 10:09 PM
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Wife/Mommy/Photographer
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I am so sorry you are spotting....I know how awful it is. As soon as you see it, your heart literally sinks.  I really hope and pray you get good news tomorrow *huge Hugs*
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June 17th, 2011, 03:19 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Maine
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Good luck today! I'll be thinking of you!! I pray that you get good news!!!
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