I give up...(M/c ment)

Braysmomma03 · #1 June 21st, 2011, 10:30 AM

I am about 2 seconds from throwing in the towel and saying Im done TTC. Since the miscarriage in January I started ovulating right away the next cycle, but for the past 2 I don't seem to be ovulating. I am just so frustrated right now. MY due date was 8-28 and I swore I would be pregnant again by it, but i don't think thats going to happen now. My temps have also been running pretty low 97.2-97.4 vaginal and 97.0-97.2 oral. I'm getting sick of the disappointment month after month and don't think I can do it anymore, it took us a year to get pregnant and now Im not even ovulating.

*SamF* · #2 June 21st, 2011, 10:34 AM

I'm sorry! Have you seen a doctor at all to see what they can do?

Braysmomma03 · #3 June 21st, 2011, 10:35 AM

I goto the doctor the 28th of this month but I see months of testing before they will do anything.

melissalaw · #4 June 21st, 2011, 11:24 AM

I'm so sorry about what you are going through. Hopefully your doctor can start to give you some answers on the 28th. Have you been usig OPKs? Have they all been negative?

nala139 · #5 June 21st, 2011, 01:25 PM

I'm sorry

. It took us over a year to get pregnant the 1st time too and if that happens again I will be very depressed about that. I hope your doctor can give you some answers and that it will not be much longer for you. One thing I started doing again recently was acupuncture. It really regulated my cycle after I went off birth control and I am hoping it will now after my miscarriage as well. I really hope you start ovulating soon.

doremi · #6 June 21st, 2011, 02:24 PM

I'm so sorry you're going through this

I hope the doctor can give you some encouragement when you see them on the 28th.

.:Shortcake:. · #7 June 21st, 2011, 03:44 PM

((HUGS)) I am so sorry your having to go through this. I hope the doctors can help you hun. I know they could try you on Clomid or Femara to help O.

Jen71 · #8 June 21st, 2011, 03:59 PM

I'm so sorry. It just isn't fair. I hope things turn around quickly... Like in two months!
I started taking Fertilaid, it's supposed to help regulate cycles, and help your body ovulate. It's $26 a month, so it might be worth it?

outnumberedX3 · #9 June 21st, 2011, 05:25 PM

I'm sorry hon. I hope that the dr can give you some answers. TTC is SO hard, even when you don't have issues getting pregnant, it's even worse when you do.

TnPhotoMama81 · #10 June 21st, 2011, 07:42 PM

Did you ever try soy isoflavones?

I am sorry....I hope they can give you a quick fix/answer when you go to the dr. It is easy to get discouraged *hugs*

missy123 · #11 June 21st, 2011, 07:48 PM

I am sorry you are going through all of this. I remember how devastating the whole process was for me. I lost a baby in April of 2009 and never even got a bfp until September of 2010 - then lost that baby too!

There were times when I wanted to give up, when I did not feel I would have the strength emotionally to keep trying. When my whole life was consumed with nothing but peeing on sticks and telling DH we need to have sex now! And the disappointment of the bfp's as the months kept rolling on...

Are you going to an obgyn or an RE? Are you charting your cycles? (you mentioned your temperature)... If so bring your charts with you, it may help speed up the testing process. Or at least the doctor will take you more serious and help you faster as you understand your body.

(((Hugs)))

Celena · #12 June 21st, 2011, 07:50 PM

What all are you doing each cycle?

Have you had increased stress at home and or work?

There's so many things that contribute... one of the biggest things I want to share with you that I've had to learn to do, don't set "time limits or dates" to be pregnant by because it'll just really really disappoint you if it doesn't happen. And I've been there several times. It doesn't help.

How old are you as well? Maybe try some lemon water every morning, natural detoxifier

Braysmomma03 · #13 June 21st, 2011, 07:55 PM

Thanks for the replies ladies. right now I am temping and opk's...I get positive opk's but never get temp rise anymore. Ive had watery cm but still no temp rise. I have checked my thermometer against another and its seems close(98.5 to 99.0) right now I am just so sick of temping and opk's and sex(ugh) I think I am just going to focus on temping in the am since its habit now, and talk to the dr the 28th and just go with the flow, if it happens it happens if not it doesn't.