1st time doing the deed since m/c

robbinsbaby1 · #1 June 23rd, 2011, 09:02 AM

So last night we BD for the 1st time since m/c and I have to tell you I was so scared and nervous. The dr told us to wait a couple cycles before we ttc again, so now I am paranoid. This whole ordeal is such a roller coaster of emotion. I have so much respect for those of you who have had multiple losses, you all are so amazing and strong.

.:Shortcake:. · #2 June 23rd, 2011, 10:48 AM

((HUGS)) the first time BDing after all my losses was really hard. I actually cried with my first loss the first several times BDing. We are here for you every step of the way. Please jump in to posting we would love to get to know you better.

tobi4 · #3 June 23rd, 2011, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by .:Shortcake:.

((HUGS)) the first time BDing after all my losses was really hard. I actually cried with my first loss the first several times BDing. We are here for you every step of the way. Please jump in to posting we would love to get to know you better.

This absolutely. I remember being so sad and feeling so lost. Thise feelings start to fade, and dtd gets easier as some time passes. Good luck on your journey to having a sweet little rainbow baby!

melissalaw · #4 June 23rd, 2011, 12:06 PM

The first time for us after the mc was this Tuesday and it was so hard. I know exactly what you are going through. I'm hoping the next time will be a bit easier.

robbinsbaby1 · #5 June 23rd, 2011, 01:16 PM

Yeah it was so hard and nevermind that DH every minute was asking if I was ok, very sweet though. Now that m/c has passed I am hoping that I do not have to wait FOREVER for these 2 cycles. I have no patience