Everyone's time will come....

acchickpea · #1 June 30th, 2011, 10:30 AM

I have to think positive that my time will come and everyone else on this board will be blessed with a miracle... There isn't a lot of positivity on my end and I need to move forward and live life without the stress... I hope by posting this I will have the mentality to move forward and not look for the worst in people.....
I love the support that I get from you ladies! Thank you for caring! HUGS

.:Shortcake:. · #2 June 30th, 2011, 10:37 AM

It truly is hard to stay positive when there are so many reasons being negative would be easier, BUT when we stay positive it keeps us moving & living. Each and every one of you ladies WILL graduate here. It just sucks that it might not be in our time line like we want it. I've been trying for 3 years with 8 angels and there are days that I want to give up, but then I look at the ladies in PAL and they keep me going

melissalaw · #3 June 30th, 2011, 11:24 AM

I am also trying to stay postitive and not dwell on the m/c. It is hard somedays but focusing on the future and the baby we will someday hopefully have helps. I am hoping for healthy babies for all the wonderful women on this board.

StaceygirlPa · #4 June 30th, 2011, 11:38 AM

I am trying to stay postitive and not think of the m/c's I have had. I know I want to be a mom and I want to make Dh a daddy. No matter what I know I am not going to give up. I am trying not to get stressed about it.

acchickpea · #5 June 30th, 2011, 11:42 AM

yey ladies! Let's be open to everything and not look back!!!

LilHerndon · #6 June 30th, 2011, 12:51 PM

Thanks for the positive post. I've been having a hard week, and as much as I try, it is so difficult to stay positive lately. I do believe we will all get our take-home babies, it's just a longer, harder road for us. I don't plan on ever giving up, that rainbow baby will be mine someday.

acchickpea · #7 June 30th, 2011, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by LilHerndon

Thanks for the positive post. I've been having a hard week, and as much as I try, it is so difficult to stay positive lately. I do believe we will all get our take-home babies, it's just a longer, harder road for us. I don't plan on ever giving up, that rainbow baby will be mine someday.

Absolutely!

JessP · #8 June 30th, 2011, 06:21 PM

I know its hard to stay positive. After my second loss I got a tattoo for my angels. People asked if I would try again. My response was no, I don't want to add anymore names to my tattoo. I had no faith that I would ever have another child. It took almost a year to finally be ok with not having more children. To move into a place where it didn't hurt so much. I finally accepted that I would only have two blessings in my home and I was ok with that.
Course then about a month later we got a big surprise. So what I am saying is even when it feels hopeless, it usually isn't. Stay positive. Don't lose hope.