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July 11th, 2011, 06:35 AM
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Giant bust.
After the RE was so happy with how everything looked. Super lining, 4 perfect follies. DH with 20 million MORE sperm than last time. and I get nada. Stark white freaking tests.
AF is due on Wednesday. (I have never had a BFP later than now).
We have two more cycles of injectables/IUI, then it's either hang it up, or do IVF in January. All of our funds for this are pretty depleted. We had t replace the railing on our deck, and have it shored up (idiot builder didn't do it right, and it wasn't safe), so there went $3000. We get more stock in January that we can use towards IVF, but we really need to re-do our front porch and put a railing up on our retaining wall, it's not safe for DS- the wall has a 10 foot drop down to the back driveway. Thats going to run close to $4K to do everything, which if we do IVF we won't be able to afford to do it.
Super frustrated. Everything was PERFECT this cycle.
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July 11th, 2011, 06:39 AM
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I am so so so so sorry Sam! BFNs are terrible, but I'm finding they sting even more with MA involved. I hope that your next IUI brings you a giant, sticky BFP! 
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July 11th, 2011, 07:00 AM
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I am so sorry that this cycle is a bust. Hopefully your next IUI will bring good results and end with a beautiful baby so you won't have to deal with IVF nexy year. Keeping you in my prayers.
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July 11th, 2011, 07:00 AM
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I am so sorry Sam. I was hoping and praying for you.
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July 11th, 2011, 09:00 AM
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So sorry Sam.
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July 11th, 2011, 09:07 AM
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It's me
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Really bummed for you. 
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July 11th, 2011, 12:25 PM
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I have been thinking about you. I am sorry Sam.
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July 11th, 2011, 02:17 PM
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I'm so sorry...
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July 11th, 2011, 02:30 PM
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That sucks. I'm really sorry this wasn't your month
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July 11th, 2011, 02:54 PM
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I'm sorry Hope you can get your bfp next cycle. :hugs:
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July 11th, 2011, 02:55 PM
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Wow that really freakin stinks!!! I know that is super frustrating and just downright disheartening.
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July 11th, 2011, 03:07 PM
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I was wondering about you.
I'm so sorry Sam.
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July 11th, 2011, 03:10 PM
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I'm so sorry too.
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July 11th, 2011, 04:34 PM
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((HUGS)) I am so sorry Sam. It's not fair
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July 11th, 2011, 07:13 PM
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I'm sorry hon.
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July 11th, 2011, 07:42 PM
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I am feeling totally deflated right along side you. I am so sorry Sam
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July 11th, 2011, 08:36 PM
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i just wanted to give you HUGS Sam...i'm sorry you have to go through this - you've done so much already, you deserve an easy cycle with a quick BFP
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July 12th, 2011, 05:01 AM
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I'm so sorry Sam! I hope that your next cycle ends with a BFP!
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July 12th, 2011, 05:56 AM
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Thanks ladies. AF showed this morning. So upping the pin cushion status to Thursday.
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July 12th, 2011, 06:01 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry sweetie
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