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July 11th, 2011, 12:57 PM
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Guess I am feeling a little hormonal today... It sucks to still be cramping so severely. The trips to the bathroom are getting a little easier, but can't wait to just be done with this horrible part of it. I just want that to go away because it keeps it on my mind constantly. I made a f/u appt. with my dr. today and then started crying on the phone. uggghhhh. I hate this. My family just says...well, you can try again when DH gets back in September. But I wanted it to happen now. Is that selfish? the baby would have been due March 6th and he has to go on deployment again the end of next summer, so he would be there for the beginning. now...we wouldn't be able to even ttc again until October...and if we got pregnant right away, it would be due when he was leaving I am just feeling very angry and sad right now. I turn 35 in November and feel like I am on a time line. I feel regret that I didn't try sooner with my husband and now I am feeling very guilty, like it will never happen, honestly.
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July 11th, 2011, 01:14 PM
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I am feeling the same way. yes, we can try again...but this was the time I wanted it the most. I feel selfish just as you stated for feeling this way, but to be honest, I think it is all normal. BIG BIG HUGS!!!
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July 11th, 2011, 01:17 PM
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I am so sorry that you are having such a hard day. it will get better and you can get pregnant again. I had my first at 35 and now we are trying for our second I'm 37. I believe that it will happen again for me and it will happen for you also. I know the timing with your husband's deployment stinks. I'm sure you guys can work it out. Praying that it gets better for you soon!!
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July 11th, 2011, 01:28 PM
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Amanda...I am glad to know I am not the only one to feel this way. That is why I am so glad I found this site. I need it really. Not having DH home..or any family here.. is making it tough on me right now and I am so glad to have so much support on this site!! Melissa, Thank you so much for the encouragement. I hope it does happen soon for all of us!
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July 11th, 2011, 03:04 PM
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I'm sorry I know the "you can try again" can be hard to hear when you wanted THIS baby. That always kind of stings a little. It will get easier when the bleeding is stopped, at least it did for me. It's hard to try and move on when you're being constantly reminded
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July 11th, 2011, 03:06 PM
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July 11th, 2011, 04:42 PM
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July 11th, 2011, 07:08 PM
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I'm sorry hon . The pain never completely goes away but it does lessen some over time. HUGS
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