Hi, May I join you ladies?? I'm new here! (m/c mentioned)

ArmyWifey_MrsCurtis · #1 July 13th, 2011, 08:31 AM

Hi, I'm Sarah (22) & My DH Sean is (27)

We have been trying to conceive for about 10 months. I also have PCOS (poly-cystic ovarian syndrome) We got our first BFP on 5/18/2011, Which was my hubby's bday!!

But..
After a long, nerve-twisting night in the E.R. (on Monday 7/11/2011) we found out that our Baby no longer had a heartbeat. There is no words to describe the pain me & DH are feeling at this time. I had to have a DNC surgery, and they also removed a cyst in my uterus, which they believe caused the baby not to receive any nutrients. The doctor thinks that the baby latched on to the cyst which was latched on to the uterine wall. We will never know why god only gave us our little miracle for 12 weeks, but we do know that it was the best 12 weeks of our lives. We are taking this day by day, and are trying to build up the courage to go through this whole process again. We will never understand why this happened to us, but we do know that: In all things, you should always give thanks, and that's what we are trying to do.

We don't know when we will be TTC again, but with God, all things are possible. And we are just trying to keep our heads up, and go on with our lives.

I would love to join your group.. Since you all understand what we are going through at this time.

melissalaw · #2 July 13th, 2011, 08:46 AM

Sarah I am so sorry for your loss. Please join right in. The ladies in this group are so amazing and have been such a help to me. I hope that we can help you also. Again I am so sorry for your loss. It is so hard to understand God's Will at times but you seem to have such a wonderful view of things. Hope you get your rainbow baby quickly when you start trying again.

pepper73 · #3 July 13th, 2011, 08:51 AM

Hi and welcome! I'm so sorry for your loss. It is definitely unbelievably heartbreaking and I hate that anyone ever has to go through it. This board is full of amazing women who completely understand what you are going through and we are here for you whenever you need support. I hope that your TTC journey is short!

kaylakay · #4 July 13th, 2011, 08:54 AM

I have had 3 consectutive losses and lemme just say it's just as heartbreaking every single time. It never gets "easier". I'm so sorry for your losses, we all know how it feels and I wouldn't even wish it on my worst enemy. Just know were here for support and questions. When I had my first loss I felt I had no one there. So please if you need anything speak up. Were here to help.

doremi · #5 July 13th, 2011, 08:56 AM

Hi Sarah. I am so glad you are joining in here... the ladies are wonderful! Praying for you as you work through this heartbreaking time.

bluebawler · #6 July 13th, 2011, 09:23 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

It's incredibly hard and all you can do is take it day by day. I'm new here as well so we can go through this together(I lost mine on 5/25/11). Everyone here is really nice and supportive and they offer great advice. I pray this time goes quickly for you and that you heal physically, mentally and spiritually and that you get pregnant again quickly. God has a better plan for you.

Psalm 55:22
"Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved."

Deuteronomy 31:6
"Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the LORD your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.�

*SamF* · #7 July 13th, 2011, 09:29 AM

Hi Sarah, Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss. Losses never get easier, and the pain is very real both physical and emotional. Won't say it happens quickly but the pain does get easier to manage. Hope your stay with us is a short one.

outnumberedX3 · #8 July 13th, 2011, 09:33 AM

I'm SO sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your DH as you go through the D&C and for strength to get through this. HUGS

acchickpea · #9 July 13th, 2011, 09:35 AM

Sorry for your loss...

Hope that we can help you go through this tough time. I found it very helpful on here and hope that you do too! One day at a time and before you know it you should be able to start to TTC again....

BeckyBozeman · #10 July 13th, 2011, 09:58 AM

Hi Sarah,

I'm so, so sorry again... This has been the worst and hardest thing I've been through in my life and I've already found some help and support, as well as some returning hope, in these boards.

Here's praying that we're both back in another DDC very, very soon!

.:Shortcake:. · #11 July 13th, 2011, 10:25 AM

((HUGS)) I am so very sorry for your loss. Please jump right into posting. The ladies here are so wonderful and full of helpful information. I hope you get your sticky BFP quickly.

fromustobaby · #12 July 13th, 2011, 11:26 AM

I'm so sorry about your loss...

ArmyWifey_MrsCurtis · #13 July 13th, 2011, 11:55 AM

Thank-You ladies for all your support!! It's SO SO nice to see such a support group. Thank-you for all welcoming me with wide open arms. I am very much looking forward to being part of this group!! And I pray for all of us to have beautiful healthy BFP's soon!!

StaceygirlPa · #14 July 13th, 2011, 12:45 PM

Sorry for you loss. Welcome to the board. The ladies here are wonderful. I don't know what I would have done without the ladies on this board through my losses.