[sandiegomom]

Ok, I guess I could use some support on this. Everyone is telling me I would be crazy to try again so soon. And it might even be worthless to talk about it, because it might not even happen....But, I just got the ok from my husband to buy plane tix to Seattle because his ship will be there for sure. I obviously have no clue if my body will even ovulate, but I have read that a lot of people will ovulate after a m/c just like it was their period. So....if my body decided to be so kind and do that, I would be potentially ovulating while I was there. (what are the odds, right?) but, I really need some support. my friend has told me I would be crazy, and reminded me that I am an RN and should know better. first off...I am not an OB RN, lol...and actually, I think my body will decide what is best. If it isn't ready, then I won't ovulate, right? It was a very early M/C, 5 wk and 5 days, but based on what I passed, it ended, much, much earlier than that in my opinion. So, who knows. My body might say no anyways, but I think I want to give it a shot anyways. I won't tell anyone (other than you ladies) because I don't want a lecture. I just want support on my decision if it comes to that. Thanks for listening!

[outnumberedX3]

My 5 year old is proof that you can get pregnant right after a m/c. I say that if you and your hubby are ready, then go for it. I believe that your body won't support a pregnancy unless it's ready. FXed for you!!!

[sandiegomom]

Thank you! Your story does give me hope! Oh, by the way....I am from Bloomington, Indiana! All of my family still lives there and is still "home" to me! Nice to see a fellow Hoosier on here!

[luvmykids623]

My 3 year old DD is proof that you can have a healthy baby right after a m/c. With the m/c we had before DS we waited 3 months. It was excrutiatingly miserable. With the m/c before DD I decided to go for it before AF even showed, and I got pregnant with her. The biggest concern my OB had was dating the pregnancy, but since I had been using a fertility monitor, and knew when I ovulated, it was a non-issue. I hope that you O while you're there and you conceive your sticky bean!! You're right that it won't happen if your body isn't ready. By the way, tell your friend that doctors can't even agree on what's "safe".

[.:Shortcake:.]

I say go for it! If you and your DH feel ready then do it. If your body is not ready it will still ovulate but your body will not get pregnant. ((HUGS))

[melissalaw]

If your ready to try again. I say go for it. I don't think your body will get pregnant if it's not ready. Good Luck!!

[lindsey2000k]

Good Luck!
I would do charting and OPKs so you can figure out when you O. I have the worst luck in the world so this would probably never happen to you but... I did not wait and ended up pregnant my opks kept going positive and negative and my temps were all over the place and FF never gave me a O date. As it turned out I had an extopic and it became dangerous because we did not know how far along I was.
So for me I at least wait for my first A/F now.
But what happen to me is very very rare.

[acchickpea]

Lot's of Luck!
Hope that you "O" in Seattle! It would be such a great timing too!

[pepper73]

I agree with the others. If you and your DH are emotionally ready to try, then go for it. If you know when you ovulate, then it will be easy for doctors to date it. No matter what you decide, we are all here for you!

[doremi]

If you feel ready, go for it! I live in Seattle, and the weather lately has been PERFECT for some "fun indoor activities" Good luck!