[acchickpea]

So my DH and I are going to TTC this cycle and I've always got this voice in my head to be cautious about every little thing I do. Maybe it's my mom's voice that repeats in my head to not lift anything heavy or excercise too hard, or drink caffine, or watch what I eat, or jump too much (suspicious much?) or do something that strains my stomach.... Anyways.... I feel like I shouldn't do anything at all to try to make sure that I get a sticky bean! as silly as it sounds.... I'm even paranoid to fly on an airplane during the process... (IDK... I read something about pregnant women not flying a certain time of their pregnancy...) So Paranoid....
Thanks for listening... I need to calm down... I just don't want to have another loss.....
***breath***** ***** I need to just Breath*****

[LindseyE117]

I am like that all the time. Mine has to do with my anxiety disorder though. I have gotten a lot better though. I think once I accepted the fact that we had to do IVF is when I started feeling better.

Just breathe. It will be ok if you put good thoughts in.

[melissalaw]

Just try to calm down and not worry so much. I don't think that your actions are what caused your loss. I know it will be so difficult but just try to enjoy yourself while TTC. And I don't think that flying while trying to get pregnant would cause a loss.

[luvmykids623]

I'm the same way to the point where after I had DD and DS I wouldn't use things that I didn't use when I got pregnant with them, because I would think, "What if that messes up my chances of conceiving?" Crazy, I know, but it's me. My DD has a really bad habit of kneeing me in the abdomen when she's laying with me on the couch and I start to spaz out in my head, and occasionally on her. I worry about sitting at the computer too long and cutting off blood flow to my uterus. (I don't even know that that's a rational thought, but it's my thought process at times just the same). I think mine has to do with my anxiety disorder too. Try to breathe.

[acchickpea]

These are the silliest things but it's the "what if...." questions.....

Thanks ladies...

[cheeky_monkey]

wow you are managing to make me feel 'sane'

I have spent the last 24 cycles thinking about 'what if' and the only month i simply did not care about what i was doing was the month I actually got pregnant!

I think we all need to relax a bit, otherwise we're all going to end up feeling like zombies

[acchickpea]

Originally Posted by cheeky_monkey

wow you are managing to make me feel 'sane'

I have spent the last 24 cycles thinking about 'what if' and the only month i simply did not care about what i was doing was the month I actually got pregnant!

I think we all need to relax a bit, otherwise we're all going to end up feeling like zombies

That's one thing I don't want to experience...."Zombies" hee hee hee

[cheeky_monkey]

lol last month Brad Pitt was here, in Malta. they were filming world war z if i'm not mistaken and it had zombies in it. lol I would have fitted the part completely

[.:Shortcake:.]

((HUGS)) Stressing out isn't going to help you and is probably worse on your body than flying on the plane

[JessP]

Flying is restricted at the end of pregnancy so no worries there sweetie. Try not to blame yourself or stress. I was training for a triathlon when we conceived. Training 5-6 days a week for 60-90 mins a day. Enjoy the process with your DH and have fun.