Kayla (kaylakay)

.:Shortcake:. · #1 July 18th, 2011, 03:27 PM

How are you doing hun? Thinking of you. Please update us when you can!

outnumberedX3 · #2 July 18th, 2011, 07:42 PM

I am too, hon. HUGS!!

kaylakay · #3 July 18th, 2011, 08:32 PM

Thanks ladies, I worked all day literally 6am-6pm so not really a chance to get on...

Things are okay. He's home now but has been sleeping on the couch and I have been sleeping in the bed.... We haven't talked much because we both work so much. I work another 12 hour tomorrow than I have 3 days off so hopefully we get some talking in.

I really don't want this to be over guys, he's been my everything since I was 16.

pepper73 · #4 July 19th, 2011, 05:22 AM

I'm so sorry everything is in such limbo for you lately. I really hope you two can talk and you can at least figure out why he freaked out on you so badly. Do you think he'd be willing to go to a marriage counselor? If tempers flare so easily, it might be helpful for both of you if you are in a setting with an unbiased mediator. Another thing that has been suggested in the past (and seemed to work well) is the idea of putting everything out in writing. Sometimes it is easier for us to express our feelings on paper and maybe if you write it all out, your DH will be more willing to "listen"...and maybe he would be able to either talk rationally or write out what he is feeling. We are all here for you and we are all rooting for you that you are able to work it out.

owensmom · #5 July 19th, 2011, 06:07 AM

I've been thinking of you too, I'm glad to hear that at least he came home. I really hope you can work it all out!

.:Shortcake:. · #6 July 19th, 2011, 08:56 AM

Maybe if sitting down and talking isn't going to work maybe you could write him a letter/email or something that way you can get your feelings out and then once you do that you could sit down and talk. ((HUGS))

melissalaw · #7 July 19th, 2011, 09:13 AM

I'm glad that he's at home. Praying that you guys can work it out.

StaceygirlPa · #8 July 19th, 2011, 12:30 PM

I have been thinking about you. I agree with Katie. I know when Dh and I was have a problem about his mom living with us it really helped me to put my feelings down on paper. Giving Dh a chance to read it seem to really help. He seemed to understand more where I was coming from. I hope you can get things talked out.