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July 18th, 2011, 08:40 PM
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Ugh I'm now like 14 days late and just BFN.

I'm scared. This has never happened to me. Has this ever happened to any of you? I'm scared it's an infection or something serious. I have had a lot of CM but no pain of any sort? :/ oh jeeze.
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July 18th, 2011, 09:02 PM
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Do you know, in fact, when you ovulated? If you don't, it's possible you ovulated late or haven't ovulated yet. That, or you're pregnant, though a test should show that by now if you're truly that late. Good luck.
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July 18th, 2011, 09:17 PM
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Sometimes af can be affected by stress. Although 14 days late might make me stress too. Hopefully you get some answers soon!
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July 18th, 2011, 11:00 PM
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I'd be asking for bloodwork at that point... I DO have one friend who never got a positive HPT, and had to have her pregnancy confirmed with bloodwork.
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July 18th, 2011, 11:42 PM
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I agree, either it's stress, you haven't ovulated, or you could be pg and the sticks just aren't working for you.
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July 19th, 2011, 05:13 AM
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I agree with the other ladies. Maybe you ovulated late or it could be strees or hopefully your preg. and just not showing on the tests. I would definitely call my doctor and have them do some bloodwork. Let us know when you know something.
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July 19th, 2011, 05:14 AM
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I agree with the others. Are you charting your cycles at all? It would definitely be worth a visit to your doctor just to see what is going on. If it is an infection or something, you will need to get that taken care of right away. Keep us posted!
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July 19th, 2011, 05:41 AM
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Stress can do wacky stuff to a body. I'd call though to get some blood work run. {hugs}
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July 19th, 2011, 05:54 AM
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You could also have a cyst causing a delay in AF. In the spring last year I had a cyst that caused me to miss 2 cycles and I was always pretty regular. I also suggest giving your doctor a ring and see what he/she says.
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July 19th, 2011, 06:00 AM
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When I had a large cyst, my period was a month late. That's how I found out I had a cyst. Went to the doctor, thought I was pregnant, they found the cyst. Period started a week later. Stress causes me to be late too. Always has. Good luck!
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July 19th, 2011, 08:57 AM
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I would call your doctor! It could be from stress, annovulatory cycle or a cyst like Missy said. All those things and more can affect your cycle.
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July 19th, 2011, 12:27 PM
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I would call your doctor. I know stress really takes a toll on my cycles.
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July 19th, 2011, 03:23 PM
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I agree with you. This happened to me for my first 3 or 4 cycles for the first year immediately following the loss. I was consistently going 2-3 months between periods and testing regularly and always bfn during those. When I did get a period, it would be super light, just a couple days of spotting/light bleeding, and painless. You said you have a lot of CM. I was totally bone dry. It did end up sorting itself out, and almost a whole year after the loss, my periods got painful, heavier bleeding, and much more consistently spaced. I never got any testing. I hope I'm not scaring you, but I am just letting you know you're not alone.

I'm with the other ladies too. Get some bloodwork done and let us know what happens.

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July 19th, 2011, 04:43 PM
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The other ladies have given you some really great advice. I don't have anything to add other than great big ((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))!
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