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July 22nd, 2011, 08:37 PM
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After getting a pretty good line on Tuesday, my lines have gotten progressively lighter. I just took a shot of my tests and it's not looking good. Definite downward progression.  Bloodwork came back as only 8. My back is killing me and I'm cramping. Anyone have any experience with a chemical? Can I try again right away or is this treated like a mc? Honestly not sure if I want to try again. Two failures in a row makes me feel like something is just wrong with me. I will not know anything until Monday when I do more bloodwork. After looking at this pic though, I think I'm kidding myself to have any hope.
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July 22nd, 2011, 09:06 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss I had 2 chemical pregnancies and tried again right away, we did not even wait for 1 cycle.
((hugs)) It is so heartbreaking.
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July 22nd, 2011, 09:31 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. It sucks having that happiness ripped from you
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July 22nd, 2011, 09:41 PM
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I'm sorry honey . Sending you tons of hugs!!
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July 22nd, 2011, 10:49 PM
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Oh I'm so sorry! I was halfway hoping that I'd get a surprise BFP and we'd end up in the same DDC again with happier results for both of us...
Hoping for one that sticks for you soon...
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July 23rd, 2011, 12:49 AM
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I'm so sorry Leanne! I was really hoping this was going to be the perfect pregnancy for you. 
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July 23rd, 2011, 01:39 AM
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It definently does seem possible to have a chemical following this pattern. I wouldn't put off hope of conceiving again and having a healthy pregnancy.
I hope you're doing ok.
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July 23rd, 2011, 04:29 AM
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((HUGS)) I am so sorry hun! I have had chemicals as well and like Missy I have tried right away. I hope you get your sticky BFP quickly.
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July 23rd, 2011, 04:55 AM
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I have had chemicals like Missy and Katie. We didn't wait. We started trying right away. I am sorry for your loss.
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July 23rd, 2011, 05:29 AM
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I am so sorry! 
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July 23rd, 2011, 06:03 AM
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I am so sorry
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July 23rd, 2011, 07:29 AM
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I am so sorry
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July 23rd, 2011, 07:32 AM
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Oh no! I'm so sorry!! I honestly don't see any reason to not try again right away if you are emotionally ready for it. Sending you tons of hugs!
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July 23rd, 2011, 07:44 AM
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Thanks ladies. This next cycle is definitely out because we are going to be on vacation visiting DH's family. Not really conducive to baby making! I kind of feel like my uterus needs break after all this anyways. All this makes me wonder how in the world I got pregnant with Akadia after one try. At this point I just want to get on to the second blood test so I can know something for sure. My back is a disaster and I'd really like to take something strong for it!
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July 23rd, 2011, 09:44 AM
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I'm so sorry. Ive had 2 chemicals and that's what my 2nd ones progression looked like. The first one was after af was late, and the cramping was pretty darn hard.
Best wishes for next time. Gave you had your progesterone levels checked?
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July 23rd, 2011, 10:30 AM
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I had it checked after the first mc. It was 20 then and no one ever explained what that meant to me. I'll probably ask to have it checked again if the number is low on Monday. I'm going through my regular doc since my OB will not get involved before you are 9 weeks, and she wouldn't send in a request for the progesterone with my bloodwork. If the betas come back bad again, I'm hoping my OB will talk to me then.
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July 23rd, 2011, 08:40 PM
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I'm sorry.
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July 23rd, 2011, 08:54 PM
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I'm so sorry...
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July 25th, 2011, 05:34 AM
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I am so sorry. I was really hoping that this was it for you. Hopefully once you start trying again, you will get a quick BFP.
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July 25th, 2011, 05:55 AM
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I'm so sorry! Hope you don't have to wait long for your sticky BFP!
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