So DH and I are doing better....

kaylakay · #1 July 27th, 2011, 07:39 PM

David and I are doing better... He started sleeping in bed with me again, we went out to eat last night, and we cuddled on the couch together today.

Now thar doesn't mean he's off the hook... I dont just want to sweep under the rug what happened so we have a marriage counciling session next week. We just are going to get everythig out on the table with all the stress of TTCAL, money, new jobs, etc. I mean we haven't been married that long... It's bound to happen. Good times and bad. But were not giving up.

Lastly, I still haven't had my period! I tested again 2 days ago BFN!!! I'm almost due for my "next period" So I pretty much totally skipped one! Thats never happened! If I don't start by Monday I will be making a doctors appointment.

Jeeze. Just what I need... Irregular cycles. They were so regular until now. :/ I'm stressed.

missy123 · #2 July 27th, 2011, 07:42 PM

Marriage is Hard work! Oh my... I thought it would be really easy with someone I adore so much but even we have our moments. I like that you are going to counseling - there is so much stress to life now a days and it can help to have a neutral person there to guide you!

pepper73 · #3 July 27th, 2011, 07:59 PM

I am so glad you two are getting along better and even happier that he is willing to go to counseling with you. I totally agree with Missy that it will help so much to have an impartial person there to help you both. You two have been through so much together and it is hard to deal with. I really hope your counselor helps you get back on track. As for your messed up cycles...I have a feeling that the stress has had a lot to do with it. Good luck and keep us posted!

doremi · #4 July 27th, 2011, 08:54 PM

I'm glad things are looking up! Good luck with the marriage counseling. I hope it really helps resolve some things and bring you closer together. That is crazy about your AF! Maybe it's just the extreme amount of stress you're under...

TnPhotoMama81 · #5 July 27th, 2011, 09:48 PM

Sounds like a step in the right direction

yay!

JessP · #6 July 27th, 2011, 11:30 PM

I am glad to hear things are improving and that you guys are working on it. Marriage is hard work. I hope it helps and you guys are able to get back to a happy place.

.:Shortcake:. · #7 July 28th, 2011, 03:17 AM

Glad to hear you guys are doing better and that your going to go to counseling. As for AF being MIA it's probably from stress hun. ((HUGS))

StaceygirlPa · #8 July 28th, 2011, 04:55 AM

I was thinking about you and wondering how you were doing. I agree with the other ladies. I think stress has a lot of the problem of your miss period. I know when I am under a lot of stress it messes up my cycle. I am happy he agreed to go to counsling. I hope it helps you to get everything out in the open. I also agree with Missy. I thought when I married my best friend it would be easy. We have had some rough patches. We are just very lucky we can really sit down and talk to each other. Although at one time we did talk about going to counsling. I hope everything keeps working in the right direction.

EJsMommy · #9 July 28th, 2011, 05:43 AM

Great to hear that you two are going to counseling as marriage is hard work and having a neutral person helping you on the right path. As for your AF I have to agree with the other ladies that it is stress related.

melissalaw · #10 July 28th, 2011, 05:50 AM

So glad to hear that things are getting better for you and DH. I think it is good that you guys have decided to go to marriage counseling. Hopefully it will help you guys work through your problems. I agree with the other ladies, the stress of whats been going on is most likely the cause of your missing AF.

*SamF* · #11 July 28th, 2011, 05:55 AM

Glad things are getting better. Counseling is an excellent idea. The one thing that my mother told me about marriage (that actually made sense) was that no two people can live together and never disagree/fight unless one of them isn't being honest about their feelings.

luvmykids623 · #12 July 28th, 2011, 06:34 AM

I'm glad you're doing better! I hope that the marriage counseling helps. Marriage is hard work, I'm glad you're getting an unbiased third party to help you work through issues.

outnumberedX3 · #13 July 28th, 2011, 07:01 AM

I'm glad that you two saw that need to seek outside help. Sometimes thats hard to admit. I hope that AF shows for you soon!!! HUGS to you!!!

acchickpea · #14 July 28th, 2011, 08:13 AM

Yay! Good luck and I hope that everything is cleared out and understood between you two. I'm sure it will help eleviate some stress!

nala139 · #15 July 28th, 2011, 08:35 AM

So glad you guys are doing better! Hopefully you will be even closer after going through this. Marriage has so many ups and downs. I have found that after big fights with my DH we can usually somehow feel closer to one another. I hope that is the case for you guys ((hugs)).