Finally happened

ttcivfma · #1 July 28th, 2011, 02:46 PM

Hi Ladies,
So after getting the injection I finally m/c yesterday. It was so upsetting and on top of it DBF could not be around. I felt so alone. I am better today. I am waiting to see what my beta is so that we can start over. I dont want to do IVF again. We are thinking of doing some natural cycles for about 6 months and trying vitamins and herbs and see what happens. We have two frozen embies from the last IVF cycle but not sure. They want us to wait at least two cycles before trying with the embies. IDK what we are going to do.

3Sapphires · #2 July 28th, 2011, 03:44 PM

I am so sorry you were alone yesterday.

*big hugs*

sandiegomom · #3 July 28th, 2011, 04:12 PM

i am so sorry for your loss

.:Shortcake:. · #4 July 28th, 2011, 04:31 PM

((HUGS)) I am so sorry your having to go through this and being alone makes it worse. We are here for you.

BeckyBozeman · #5 July 28th, 2011, 04:36 PM

I'm so very sorry... I can't even imagine how much harder mine would have been for me if DB had not stayed right by my side. I hope that it at least gave you a little confidence in yourself and what you're capable of dealing with. T&P as you start to heal and lots of hopes for a sticky natural BFP soon for you.

ttcivfma · #6 July 28th, 2011, 04:47 PM

Thanks ladies. It was tough doing it alone but I had to get through it. I just shut myself off from the world. Now it is time to recover and try and move on. Thanks for all the kind words and thoughts. Ill take all I can get. The mental pain is worse then the physical.

doremi · #7 July 28th, 2011, 10:09 PM

I totally agree with you that the mental pain is far worse than the physical. That was my experience too. I'm so sorry your DB wasn't around during the worst of it. I think doing some natural cycles would be very healing in your situation. Those embies will wait for you, until you are emotionally in a place to make decisions about how to move forward with them. Huge hugs to you!

pepper73 · #8 July 29th, 2011, 04:19 AM

I am so sorry for your loss and that you had to go through it alone. We are all here for you if you need us to offer comfort and support. Best of luck to you as you get back on the TTC road.

StaceygirlPa · #9 July 29th, 2011, 04:31 AM

I am sorry for you loss and that you had to go through it alone. Like the other ladies said remember all of us are here for you.

acchickpea · #10 July 29th, 2011, 05:10 AM

Sorry for your loss... Don't ever feel like you are alone... You can always come on here to JM anytime!

luvmykids623 · #11 July 29th, 2011, 05:11 AM

I'm so sorry that you had to go through this, especially alone.

melissalaw · #12 July 29th, 2011, 10:28 AM

I am so sorry for your loss and that you were alone. We are here for you to offer support.

ttcivfma · #13 July 29th, 2011, 10:45 AM

Thanks so much ladies. Hugs!!!!!

joanna26 · #14 July 29th, 2011, 11:03 AM

I am so sorry for your loss

We are always here for you to vent to and for support

ttcivfma · #15 July 29th, 2011, 02:40 PM

Thanks so much!

Jen71 · #16 July 29th, 2011, 02:47 PM

I'm so sorry

outnumberedX3 · #17 July 29th, 2011, 06:20 PM

HUGS hon!! I'm sorry for your loss and that you were by yourself. I was also by myself for most of my m/c because my DH was 2+ hours away working when it started.